He just seems to get me.
He says that he loves me as a best friend.
But I love him as wayyy more.
When I bring up the subject, he changes immediately.
I just don't know how to tell him I love him....and I just can't get him out of my head.
My friends say; "You can't help who you love, your not supposed to."
I don't want to get over him; but I want him to love me back.
Advice please?!
2007-03-20 01:33:47 · 5 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give yourself some time to further develop this relationship, seen to me you'll are rushing and he's just not border. Slow down a little !
2007-03-20 01:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hun,you sound so young and hurt.let me tell you a little something.I'm 45 years old and I've never had a guy love me or put me first in any relationship I've ever been in.why?because i am like you are,you wont to be loved by someone so bad that we try to force them into it.that never works,take it from a pro.you sound like a very beautiful and smart young lady that anyone would be blessed to have in there life's,but only if they wont it as much as you do.it don't sound like this one boy does.don't try to force it,let it happen naturally.if you do the right person for you will find you when the time is right.don't be in such a hurry,that will only get you more heart ache.your friend Torri
2007-03-20 08:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by scooterpie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are meant to be, you will be. If you love him that much, you can only wait for him to love you back. You can't force a person to love you, even God can't make him love you if he doesn't feel that way. Maybe in the future he might develop that kind of feeling for you. It must feel terrible for you I understand. But you will not want him to pretend to love you back in that way if he simply doesn't and he only pretends to be so so that you won't feel bad.
At least, the person you love loves you. just not in that way. at least you are not loving someone who has no feeleings for you or someone who hate you.
I will pray for you. All the best. Perhaps you should turn your attention away for a while and keep your eyes open for another one to enter your heart. Good luck dear!
2007-03-20 08:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he keeps chancing the subject, you should try and let it go, because a man like that is not worth it. You should choose yourself first and then him, and it look like he does not love you. Don't wait for a man, if he is not worth waiting for.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 08:39:00 · answer #4 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you love him, i'm sure that he'll understand you about your feeling, it's not your fault that you became in love w/ him, and if he's a real friend he'll understand you.!
but don't expect to much, if he says your just friends then tell him that it's ok get over it.
then after that (sometimes guys will snob you even though your friends) talk to him about it, tell him that your sorry just tell him "please don't snob me, i take it that you only love me as a friend, pls don't snob me" ok,
hoped that i helped.
2007-03-20 08:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by igel manalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋