My Husband thinks I have Bi-Polar due to the fact that my mother has it, and he will leave out of nowhere and be gone for hour or more at times, meanwhile I am stuck at home, with 2 kids in one room all alone, and when he gets back I freak out out of anger cause it's bullshit. If there was emergency he would never know. We are living with his mother and confined to our room due to the fact that they smoke and I have a 5 week old little girl and don't want her around it. We are here more cause he has migraines and things were getting rough, but now am thinking we were better off sticking it out even if it meant to dig hole deeper. Just last night he called cops on me cause I think I had flu and was in bed all day and thought he woudl take care of our daughter so she don't get it beings he is unemployed and instead he woudl rather sleep and joyride and make me take care of her, so I was pissed and freaked out. Is that Bi-Polar?Or is it me just reacting to a situation.
2007-03-20 01:14:17 · 6 answers · asked by litlbrat2000 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't think you have bipolar. I would react in a very similar manner myself.
I do think you have a bit of a jack *** partner. I don't know him myself, so you see if this fits. Maybe he shirks responsibilities with the kids mostly and when he gets called on it, he redirects the conversation to you having the problem so the focus isn't on his misconduct? I can't think of a personality disorder that would fall into. Sounds more like a coping or defense mechanism. I linked directly to an article that lists and explains them. Denial looks like the only one that fits, but I could swear we learned about a more applicable one in class. Sorry, I can't find it.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 03:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have severe mood swings that lasts for days, or weeks or months, you may not be bi polar. bi polar is genetic but can skip a generation. just cause your mother has it, does not mean u do. i think he is just using that as an excuse and that's mean. read up on bi polar on the Internet to ease your mind. i suggest a mental health counselor for you might be help full. sounds like you are hurting in this relationship. there may be nothing wrong with you, but seeing a counselor may help your self esteem , and perhaps find some coping skills as to how to deal with your uncaring husband. hope this helps you. if possible, get away from his mother. just because a person is bi polar does not mean they are stupid. you do not have to "look after a bi polar person" if they are on meds, they can do fine on their own. good luck to you
2007-03-20 01:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by zeek 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I seriously don't think you have Bi-Polar. I think your more pissed off with your husband and that fine. He is a jacka**. Ask him to take you out more, and if he say no then go out with your girlfriends and show your husband that you are normal and that hes the immature one
2007-03-20 02:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are bi-polar. He is just a unsopportive anfçd egotistic piece of ****-
You should consider leaving him. You will always be better by yourself. Of course, that is if nothing else works.
2007-03-20 01:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 05:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.cchr.org. you and your husband watch the videos of psychs saying there are no valid tests for mental illness and that there are no cures.
2007-03-23 08:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by robthomasjr2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋