I have recently met the greatest guy I have ever known, He is sweet and caring and when we kiss it's completely unreal. But since I am not used to having things this good I am worried that time will make them fade away. And loosing it scares me. What should I do? Im so used to being treated badly by Boyfriends or not feeling like this. Im just so worried about him not liking me in the future, even though he does now. So does love fade away? We have been seeing each other for about 5 months and its been great everyday.
2007-03-20 00:56:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love takes on different levels over time. Enjoy and make the most of the wonderful feelings you have right now. Let the future take care of itself.
2007-03-20 01:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by mijastely 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you cannot define love it means different things to different people, some cultures dont even believe in it however meeting somebody new is exciting you have a good time after 2 years or so your used to each other and obviously it wont be the same as when you first met as your learning things about the other person, but that doesnt mean you wont still love each other, i know many nice lasses who i love to bit and would do anything for, even though id never be lucky enough to go out with them, i will always care for them. Do you stop loving a person when they die, no. so dont worry you'll still love each other, you'll have arguments no doubt everybody does, but just keep doing new things and showing affections for one another and allow each other their own space and not see each other all the time.
2007-03-20 08:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by wierd and wounderful world of me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will find that as time goes on the kisses will not mean as much as they do to you now, but just having him around will mean a lot to you and not seeing him will mean that you miss him a lot. it is like having a nice new house. When it is new you want to show it off, but as it grows older you just feel more comfortable in it. Doesn't mean that you love it any less.
2007-03-20 08:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love ALWAYS fades away. and be grateful if it just fades away and u will get out of it not being hurt and betrayed. u can do nothing about it. it is life. it is the same that we die at the end. even if u dont' want to believe it u will die. some just will die sooner, some later, some will die fast and some will die after long, painful desease
2007-03-20 08:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love only fades away if you allow it to. You will always need to find ways to keep it alive. If you more questions on how to do that, then email me at cobenour30@yahoo.com. I would love to talk to you about this. Love is what you make of it!
2007-03-20 08:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very happy for you in this relationship, he sounds like a winner to me.
I hope you don't confuse him for how you have been treated in the past, as that is one mistake I have made with my hubby. I actually called him by my ex's name once. :-(
I have found with my hubby now, the more I dwell on the past, the more unhappy he is about general stuff. I have found that leaving the past behind me and forgiving is the most important thing our relationship now can have. The more I forgive, the better, and the more that I can accept him for now is the better.
Its a win, win, if you look at it that way. Just don't hold on to your past, it will destroy more than you think if you hold on to it.
2007-03-20 08:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love does not always fade away it takes the both of you to make it work out to keep your love going u have to work as a team good luck wit it
2007-03-20 08:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by T-Money 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love then love increases with each passing day.
2007-03-20 08:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by ag 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, Love does not fade away always.................
2007-03-20 08:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋