Guyz m really scared tht he may find out tht m not a virgin on our weddin nite,m basically an indian livin in US frm past many yrs n out der in india virginity is still a sacred concept n my family sticks to out no matter wat.....How cud i possibly explain to him y i dint bleed whn v do it d first time?As dis fact can ruin my future,any gals out der who r married can u help me wid it n tell me as to whther d guy can really find out if his bride is a virgin or not n wat can i really do to cover up d fact???......M goin nuts over dis.....Help guys help!!!!!
2007-03-20 00:55:41 · 4 answers · asked by Confu$ed G@l 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simply tell him the truth and if he believe in you and love you he will live with this issue and maybe he will respect you more , otherwise you will know that there is a lack of trust between you and him and this leads you that this is not the guy you want to spend your life with .....
regarding your religion , believes , and athics ..... the truth is the only way
2007-03-20 01:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by saedtah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very first thing just be normal, dint panic in front of him, on the golden night there are too much of excitement that no one bothers about it. If you are not having sex regularly then chances are there that you will bleed a little. In some books like Kamsutra you can find the way to hide this, otherwise modern days explanation it could have broken while cycling, swimming or exercising.
2007-03-20 01:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by ag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on plenty. How previous are you (my own adventure, i became engaged at 15, married at 20, divorces at 21&a million/2. you may desire to be, no less than, 25). How long have you ever been with him? 365 days minimum, residing jointly. I even have got here upon that men will say all the flaws they think of you opt to hearken to interior the 1st couple of months residing jointly. After that, the lust is long previous and the real guy he's comes out. final analysis, pay attention on your thoughts (and the little 6th experience I might desire to have listened to nermorous cases yet shrugged off as paranoid).
2016-11-27 00:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for that person who is going to marry u......U lost the viriginity long before marriage and will loose trust on wedding night..God knowes what kind of marriage that would be...lol
2007-03-20 01:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋