Girls seem to always go for the ar*seholes...... Having read a couple of questions posted by some really nice girls .... I have come to the conclusion that..... Women seem to be terrible at chosing a decent partner...
Why is this.....?
2007-03-20 00:37:09 · 19 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because the idiot men tend to be the attractive ones. They know they are attractive so this leads to over inflated egos. Because they are so good looking, they feel they don't need to try, in the relationship or in bed for that matter. Because their love for a woman can never come close to the love they have for themselves, cheating can only be expected from these men. Their personalities are also limited as well because they haven't ever really needed them.
So in short... the reason women date the @rseholes is because they are (usually) the good looking ones.
I dated a guy at uni who was probably the most attractive man I have ever seen - to date! He fitted the above description perfectly as do many others I know. I much prefer a nice average man these days!!
2007-03-20 02:50:59 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a*holes are more interesting; I could tell you a thing or two about it. Sometimes the girls are that way as well I've met a few in my day. It's all cool as long as you know what the boundaries are and what lines not to cross.
Women aren't terrible at choosing a decent partner; men are entirely too good at selling themselves. Too often the men that are the most aggressive, and the best talkers and the most persuasive are the ones that are a*holes, bad guys, have problems sticking with one girl (probably because they have so many to choose from) and so on and so forth. So you have to adapt some of their tactics and find a way to incorporate them without becoming someone who, at the end of the day, isn't that unpleasant yourself. A lot of times good guys just aren't that confident and they get looked over. Sometimes the good guys stalk and harass the girls; and while that's fun in the beginning, at the end it gets a bit creepy. You have to have the confidence to know that the girl is really interested in yo0u and isn't going anywhere ...
2007-03-20 07:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree.. I also think its crazy how the rate of a relationships drastically dropped.. i wish i knew the exact numbers, but soo many relationships aren't even going past a month now a days.. whatever happened to being in love, or even just getting to know your partner as much as possible before you actually have sex, that way you can cherish everything more, instead of just looking at relationships like "ok, im done with you.. next!!." or like "eh, that wasn't good enough, i can find someone better... neext!.." that type of drive is only decreasing the number of good guys and girls out there, because they're being hurt left and right..
Its better to just move on and keep an eye out for that good one.
2007-03-20 07:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by brasilparadice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all can be terrible at picking partners, I don't think gender has anything to do with it. We get too emotionally attached and don't see the negative things. It's like we are blinded (I am speaking in general here, for both men and women). So be careful, and guard your heart. Don't take any rash leaps into a relationship without truly understanding yourself and the other person.
2007-03-20 07:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by kayork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choosing a decent partner is a learned behavior. We learn it first from our relationships with our fathers, and then transfer it over to the dating process. If we don't learn it when were little, then we struggle through as adults. We have to re-learn the process or we just keep being attracted to the same kind of jerk.
Re-learning it is not an easy task. It requires a "safe" father figure mentor to retrain yourself of what expectations you should have of a man.
2007-03-20 08:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lady M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, by nature, are nurturing people....I think it's ingrained somewhere in our primitive instincts that are somehow connected to motherhood. We tend to want to cure the sick, heal the injured, tend the weak, teach the ignorant, love the lonely, etc.... it seems the more someone seems to "need us", the more we feel pulled in their direction....some women mistake these feelings of attraction for "love"... they give and self-sacrifice because it is easy for them to do so...however living with the outcome usually proves to be much more difficult. It's hard for women to accept and fully understand that they cannot "change" or "love" a man into being what he is not. But many feel compelled to try. It seems to be rooted somewhere in our nature.
2007-03-20 07:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is stupid on their part. Although, if there weren't so many ar*seholes, there wouldn't be so women choosing shi*ty partners.....change where the problem begins and they might get somewhere....
Naughty....I love your answer
2007-03-20 07:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by kurious kat 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women want a project. To get more women, I became a project. Works like a charm.
2007-03-20 07:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want someone who is confident and knows how to take control (but too much control that it goes out of hand). Nice guys let girls run all over them.
2007-03-20 07:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like that i dont no what id do with out my fella iv gone through some really bad trouble not long ago and he was like a rock to me honestly dont know what id have done if i didnt have him in my life
2007-03-20 07:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋