i have a great relationship with my partner. but i feel that i'm not enough quite often in the mornings he spend ages in the bathroom and then tells me later that he was relieving himself, am i not enough sexually??
2007-03-20 00:29:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have spoke about it but when i told him i do the same but in the day he has a moan and says well what about me.we've been together 4 1/2 years and our sex life is great
2007-03-20 00:46:02 · update #1
ivan..no he's not bored of me we have sex every day even more than once a day.
i only ever do it when i'm on my own or if he's away.he does it whilst i'm in the house. but only ever in the morning
2007-03-20 08:59:14 · update #2
I think you need to sit down and talk to your partner about this situation, tell him how you feel when he does this and find out why he feels the need to do this (assuming that your both talking about the same kind of relieving).
2007-03-20 00:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by luz2loz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well hun let him be then. If you are not enough thats his problem NOT yours. You can do it 24/7 like some men would like but you do find the men out there that dont need sex all the time and just like to be with you for who you are and not sex.
Talk to him about this if you really want to stay and have a great relationship as he needs to know how you are feeling not just him
2007-03-20 07:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are at their most 'active' in the morning. Have you ever heard the term 'morning wood' or the 'early morning rise'
Im sure you are enough for him, try taking him by surprise in the mornings Im sure he will love it.
Im trying to be subtle about this to avoid a violation.
I think one thing women dont always realise is sex for a man is being close and intimate, similar to the way a woman wanting a hug. Its a man showing his love.
2007-03-20 07:36:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you moaning about him doing this when you admit that you do the same in the day? Maybe you should both just give each other the space to do your own thing, as long as you still have an active sex life together as well, then I wouldn't worry. Maybe you just shouldn't tell each other when you have done things on your own, and keep it to yourselves then no one gets upset or takes offence.
2007-03-20 08:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how this would make you feel. But your relationship is great, so I'm not sure if you should worry too much about him doing this. Why don't you talk to your partner about this in a gentle and non judgemental way and maybe you can see why he feels the need to do it. Tell him how it is making you feel. All the best.
2007-03-20 07:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by poons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have different sex drives to women, and spend a lot of there youth masturbating. A very high percentage of men also continue to masturbate when in a relationship, it has nothing to do with you or how sexy he finds you, sometimes he just finds it easier, quicker and a relaxation to have a quick one off the wrist.
Most men do this but do not tell there partners for upsetting them, where as your man does not see anything wrong with pleasuring himself.
We just like the feel off ourselves sometimes, women off the world please do not be offended, we where touching ourselves before we meet you and still find it nice when we are with you.
The strange difference between men and women's brains.
2007-03-20 07:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that whether blokes are in a relationship or not they still relieve themselves. Its a man thing I think hey like to play with their bits! I wouldn't take it personally if I were you, as long as your sex life is good then you have nothing to worry about. But if its really bothering you, then ask him why he does it, and put your mind at rest x
2007-03-20 07:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more aroused in the mornings - especially men. He probably wakes up with a morning glory and feels the need to see it through. Try waking up an hour earlier for some morning fun. Wake him up tomorrow with a B-J and watch him smile all day.
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2007-03-20 07:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Dee Dee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow "Ivan dragon", so sensitive!
So...first of all, which kind of relieving are you talking about?:-)
Then I would say, it is kind of weird for him to go and masturbate when you are at home......that seems just way off strange.
Is he sexually attracted to you?And dont take a simple: "yes off course honey, I do" answer.
Something is wrong!
2007-03-20 08:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by samantha21it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please dont think its because of you i please my husband at least 4 times a week and he still does it men feel the need to relieve themselves a lot more often than women its just built in you could please your man everyday and he would still do it
2007-03-20 08:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by truebrit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋