My kids think he is lying and that he is womanizer. There were rumors at work that he was living with a girlfriend as well as his wife---while being with me. It depends on who you talk to. He has been so upfront with me with his past relationships. He is so private at work that I don't think he is lying to me. He has told me some really private things. I feel that if he discloses this stuff then he is telling me the truth. I feel that he truely loves me. Now the kids are threating to not talk to me if I continue to see him. I do love him. My 5 kids are in their 30's. I was going to tell them that he is one part of my life and they are in their part.
2007-03-20 00:23:18 · 6 answers · asked by LuLu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think your kids are just worried about you. They might be jealous that some other man will take your attention away from them even though your kids are already in their 30s. Haha..trust your own feelings and don't let others affect your relationship.
Even if you are wrong in your judgment, at least you won't have any regrets.
2007-03-20 00:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see -- Why do your children feel this way ? and why would rumors like that at work be going around ? Those are a few questions that are something to think about and maybe even check out for your sake -- You are the Mom and they just want you to be really happy I would hope -- If you feel red flags going off in your heart you need to follow through -- Good Luck and I hope the very best for you
2007-03-20 00:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, these things are tough to call. Usually, where there's smoke, there's fire. Private or not it is really strange people have so many stories about him. Don't worry though, time will reveal all. Eh, your kids are older as long as the guy makes you happy for now they have to accept it. For you, a hard head makes a soft ***.
-oh and BTW I've been cheated on....
2007-03-20 00:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by curiousgene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life. Your kids are adults and on their own now. They don't get to dictate to Mommy who she can and cannot see. So if they "threaten" you then call their bluff. If they choose not to speak to you, it's their loss.
As for the bf, where there is smoke there is usually fire. Pay attention to the office situation and to what ALL 5 of your kids are telling you. Tread cautiously.
2007-03-20 00:27:39 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have powers that can tell you when someone is lying or not.
2007-03-20 00:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a predicament lulu,ask him straight out and if he is lying kick him where it hurts
2007-03-20 00:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋