Hi. I've been dating a girl I met online for 2 months, every weekend, and we always have a great time! She keeps talking about many future dates, expresses how much fun she has, and the dates always end with a few long passionate kisses. So all is great, but my friend see's that she's very active daily on the website I met her on...I am not so much. In some cases, logging on 15 minutes after I leave after an all day date.
Am I being paranoid or is something strange here? I plan to have a "what do we each want" talk in the coming week (not mentioning the website of course), but interested in any thoughts. THANKS!
2007-03-19 23:44:35 · 12 answers · asked by Joe3421 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it, man.
You mean to say... do you think? no... maybe... you're not the ONLY guy in her life right now? Oh the horror!
Girls date around, just like guys do. She's not your property or your wife, so there's no reason she SHOULDN'T be looking around, playing the field. And guess what's gonna happen if you give her "the talk"? I'll give you three guesses. If you can't get it in three then we have more problems than I thought.
That's right. You give her the talk, she's gonna walk. If she hasn't shown you that she wants to commit by now, asking her isn't gonna suddenly convince her.
But, she's dating you. So, what's the problem? Why not just enjoy what it is? Where's this need to "know where things stand" coming from?
Common sense, man. If someone pops up in your life giving you an ultimatum, what's your gut reaction? Run like hell, I hope! Don't do it. Unless you're looking for a wife, 2 kids, a two car garage and soccer practice on the weekends. Personally, I recommend having fun while you're single, but that's just me.
2007-03-19 23:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do have a talk with her. Ask her if she would like to date you exclusive. If she agrees, then give her a few days to get rid of the profile. If she does not get rid of the profile, then ask tell her you know she's still running the profile and you'd feel more comfortable if she took it down. If she protests in any way at all -- "I'm not contacting anyone" or "I'm just checking to see if I can find a date for my friend Nancy" or ANY excuse whatsoever, then tell her that you think you've made a mistake and want to just be friends. The internet and it's many dating sites has been the ruin of many relationships.
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2016-05-18 20:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can give you my own experience, I was dating a guy for 6 months, and noticed that he was signing onto lava where we had met, so I did ask him, he told me it was nothing, but we broke up shortly after that.
Seriously, if she is still looking, she is still hoping to meet the "one". or, maybe she is waiting until you tell her, it is to be exclusive. After you have that talk, if you want to be exclusive & you see online activity, I would quit while you are not in too deep.
Good luck to you.
8-)
2007-03-19 23:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by leslie_ed123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, take no notice for a while some people just like the fun of the chase and are addicted.
2007-03-19 23:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is smart to "make sure of all things". Even the "website" I would certainly mention. Especially if it's the kind where you just meet other singles, etc.
2007-03-19 23:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Teri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you're ready to make the relationship exclusive...she may feel the need to stay active. It has only been 2 months...don't rush
2007-03-19 23:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....well u've met this girl online and have been dating her for twon months.....if u trust her a lot then u r probably paranoid cuz she loves u n u love her.
but think about it.....if u've known ur friend longer and if ur sure tht he doesnt ever lie to u...then u shud be careful....
My advice......no one's evr very happy when meeting ppl online.....i've had bad experiences...Thrice!!!
So think about it.....be sure about every move and then carry on.......n yes do talk to her abt it......Good Luck !!
2007-03-19 23:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hazel E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow! Thankss! just what I was searching for. I tried looking for the answer on the internet but I couldn't find them.
2016-08-23 21:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust her if I were you. Looks like this girl is leaving her options open and searching for something better. Be wary so that you don;t get hurt in the end!
2007-03-19 23:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋