2007-03-19 23:41:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why is is too hard to get out? are you being held against your will or chained up in the basement?
afraid you'll hurt someone's feelings?
yours are the ones getting hurt by staying in this stale "relationship"?
just look at the other person in the eyes and say "it's just not working out, lets be friends" and if they dont get it then they're not listening or just dumb.
Good luck
2007-03-19 23:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gary G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great question!
I know many who live in the comfort zone of a loveless marriage that think it is too hard to get out. They usually end up cheating and doing whatever they want.
Sometimes it gets to the point where you are living like brothers and sisters or in a college dorm and you both just do your own thing.
It takes BALLS to end your relationship and for the most part it is the women that do the ending (2/3rds of all divorces are initiated by women). Men, on the other hand, go for the torture routine as in "let me torture her until she does something to alleviate this situation that way I am not the bad guy".
2007-03-20 06:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Relationships are never "too hard" to get out of. A simple goodbye and it's over. I've never stuck around longer than I thought was good for me.
2007-03-20 06:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the case for more than 70% of the relations , all is waiting for the other part to take an action to break up .
And even after that we feel heart broken till next relation .
Don't worry , we all felt like you during our relations .
2007-03-20 06:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you don't say much. If you're not married, why even think about it? Get out!!! Do you think it will ever get easier? Is integrity a thing of the past? Or are you staying 'cause you found yourself in a rut and would miss the tv? or her good cooking? Who knows what's in your mind???
2007-03-20 06:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by Teri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem!!!
it was hard to leave but I knew I had to cause either one of us was gonna get hurt ba d!!!
maybe you should think about it ay.
If your not happy then leave its not healthy being in an unhealthy relationship t hats your not happy in!!!!
<3
2007-03-20 06:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it only feels its hard to get out coz u dont try hard enuf...u want to hang out on it.....well it would be better if u face the music and get the thing out of ur systemmm....coz its only u who can do it and its only u whoz gonna suffer if u dont...
2007-03-20 06:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it can be complicated if you are married. i know how you feel.
2007-03-20 07:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by kira s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋