i met at a guy dance about a week ago. at the dance we hooked up,hugged and exchanged numbers and now we are going out in a few days. we are going to the movies. any ideas of wat i should do when i first see him and what i should during the movie and after it finishes.plz help!
2007-03-19 23:37:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just have fun you dont need to kiss him or anything if he likes you and respects you he will wait till you are comfortable with him
2007-03-19 23:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, a movie for a first date is a bad idea. The idea is to get to know each other, not just sit near eachother and eat popcorn. Ask if you can go out for dinner first. If not, alteast try to go out afterwards to somewhere where you can talk and get acquainted better. If he just wants to go to the movie, tell him you'll meet him there and have one of your friends with a car go and sit somewhere else. You should always have a backup plan to get home on the first date. If he wants to go someplace to sit and talk, then you can relax a little and know hes interested in you and not what's under your clothes.. know what I mean?
If he tries to get all touchy during the movie then walk out and dump his number. The guy should respect you and want to get to know you on an emotional level, not physical. At the end of the date, if you are interested, hug him and kiss him on the cheek. Tell him you had a good time and hope you can do it again sometime. Don't let him get too initimate because he'll think you're loose. Save the kiss for the second or third date, but leave it as a kiss. Don't rush into anything.
Good luck.
2007-03-19 23:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by TrixyLoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit and watch the movie the first time..dont let him touch you or hold hands..make him work for it...make him respect you...a hug is ok for this date, maybe a kiss on the cheek...then go anywhere he wants except to his dark basement and room and have fun... as long as you keep your clothes on...if you dont, you'll be so messed up by the time you reach 21 you wont know who you are anymore..just ask mom? or dad..
Good luck and have fun!
2007-03-19 23:44:09 · answer #3 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres what not to do:
Show any weird disfigurements for example how you can touch your nose with your tongue.
Don't talk about exs
Don't talk about aliens, religion or anyother type of socially sensitive subject.
Don't tell him how many babies you are going to have with him.
You SHOULD just be yourself and do whatever comes naturally don't feel like you have to do anything.
2007-03-19 23:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by Dr Sherior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you feel and what your comfortable with.
Its no good asking anybody here as only you knaw the answer.
Just go with the moment, and your emotions, trust your instincts on whether it feels right or wrong and remember be safe, the first reaction is usually the correct one./
Enjoy yourself, the movie and be careful.
2007-03-19 23:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
act natural and be yourself --- but don't get to pushy ; or give to much away --- there is always another day tomorrow and beyond . good luck
2007-03-19 23:44:54 · answer #6 · answered by bill g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk continuously during the movie
go to a karaoke bar - sing a duet together
2007-03-19 23:43:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋