i was wondering how is it that a guy and sleep around and be a man for doing but if i went out and did it i a slag just wondering why ?
2007-03-19 23:15:10 · 24 answers · asked by laura w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because id hurt u 4 cheating!!!!!
2007-03-20 01:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STERO TYPE thats all. Men do get called slags and things like that but with their mates they are called studs but us women know the men who sleep around and stay away most of the time. Women now a days do sleep around and its fine but you need to use protection thats all. if you want fun then go and have some fun. Im married so i stay with my hubby. But each to their own really.
2007-03-20 07:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i certainly dont condone anybody for sleeping around casually, and I would never be sexist to differntiate between a man and a woman doing it as it is still the same act at the end of the day. Whatever makes you happy sex within a meaningful relationship is always more enjoyable.
Have fun, enjoy life.
2007-03-20 06:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a stereotype, apparently men are able to sleep with a woman/man and not feel anything emotional, whereas women tend to get emotionally involved. If a woman is able to sleep with a man/woman without any emotions coming into it then why not as long as its safe and nobodys getting hurt. We have needs too and may not want a relationship
2007-03-20 06:19:59 · answer #4 · answered by thebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because most people view men as not putting any emotional connection into sex. So, to try and alter those views around, and have a woman just have sex for the shier pleasure is hard to comprehend. Women, as a whole, are much more emotional creatures, so when you try to remove that stereotype - society just chooses to believe there is something wrong with her individually as opposed to her just being different.
2007-03-20 06:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, like it or not, men do the screwing and women get screwed. So a man doing a lot of screwing can be viewed as a good thing. A woman getting screwed by a lot of men is a bad thing. I'm not saying it's right but it's the way it is.
2007-03-20 06:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the "double standard" that has been going on for generations. The lie that guys "need the experience" before they get married, so their "competent" for the wedding night with the gal they marry. However, these days especially, it is best for both male and female to wait until marriage-less chance of getting std's and/or pregnancies. Take care.
2007-03-20 06:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just double standards and state of mind. Really its the same thing whether its a guy or a girl! Guys are more likely to boast about it whereas girls might be ashamed. But there is nothing wrong with it, personal choice!
2007-03-20 06:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by imalandamcuteasabutton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was made up by a bloke who likes to sleep around but only wants to be the only person who has had the woman!
2007-03-20 06:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by KANGA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what country are you in.
Man, being stronger, has for hundreds of thousands of years has had the duty of hunting for fast running and dangerous food. When they get back to the cave, they were probably tired and thought it very easy to tell his weaker mate to cook it. Thus leaving the male nothing to do but relax by the fire and drink Budweisers by the fire.
2007-03-20 06:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by mark [mjimih] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not i wouldnt call it you as it is unfair im a man and personally i wouldnt sleep around as it isnt in my nature but if you wanna go for it. Dont listen to what people say.
2007-03-20 06:23:32 · answer #11 · answered by wierd and wounderful world of me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋