It's been nine months since we broke up but not formally but within those times i had stayed loving him in my heart. Now we are starting to chat throught text. I got the feeling that with my hidden feelings for him i would be trapped again, should i stop communicating with him? Should i let him know my fears, if i fall in love again i am sure i would only be hurt, what should i do?
2007-03-19 22:37:14 · 4 answers · asked by angel blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in quite a similar situation recently.
I feel like I still love/loved him in my heart but I know that he is not the right fellow for me.
I think you answered your question in a way. You said you would feel trapped. You also said you feel you would be hurt.
If you feel you could trust this man when you share your feelings then perhaps you could risk it but if not then you should stay single and take the time to be alone and deal with your feelings for him.
2007-03-19 22:44:40 · answer #1 · answered by madisonlayne36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd say - move on, young lady! There is a more appropriate mate waiting for you!
If you waste your time on your X, you won't be available when Mr. Right comes along. You'll just have Mr. Right Now, and that's just WRONG!!!
You deserve better. Develop your other interests and make yourself irresistable to the right guy. Forget the X - if it had been right the first time y'all wouldn't have broken up.
2007-03-20 05:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by Little Ms Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its generally not a good thing to make a guy feel he can move in and out of your life whenever he likes,no matter how great you feel he is.others are watching and your 'markat value' drops, if you see what i mean.and a guy who will play with your emotions is definitely not as great as you think.if you are sure you'd be hurt again,u'd be.put an end to it.completely and don't even regret it.its in your best interest.
in the meantime,do something.pursue a hobby,learn something new,a language,a song,how to play a musical instrument,it works like magic.u'd see the results.
2007-03-20 06:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by boots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so not agree if you get back together with him.
i mean it's been 9 months since you broke up.
come on, cheer up, find some other guy which much better than him, you know what i mean.......
well, it's totally okay for you to fall in love with him.
i mean, it's your own feelings, right?
2007-03-20 05:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by syaoran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋