ok.. so my boy and i have been together for nearly 2 years... we broke up for a bit then got back together...at that time he had been sleeping with another girl (apparently not cheating on me)
anyways, when we got back together the condition was that he would be different i.e sorting himself out..he enrolled in a course..but never has finished it..its only a cert 3 too
so now he has decided since he has been working heaps lately that he wants it to be about him now that i have to come to his house, be with his friends and do what he wants.. i feel like it is a totally conditional relationship now. he hardly has friends and he decided he doesn't want anything planed.. yet he still wants to marry me! i don't know what to think of this sudden change. he suddenly has gone all like..im sick of coming to you and doing what u want. but its only like that cause have more to do or that we are going ou with my friends. b/c he wants to too. i have stopped so much for him. i walk on eggshells.
2007-03-19
22:33:17
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just some extra info - i know i have tried to make it work.. i believe it is 50/50 but everytime i tell him that i want to end it he is like fine do it...instead of wanting to talk... i find that i say it as an empty threat. he wants me to gain weight so im perfect for hiim..even though when we started going out again i had lost 10 kgs... and now ive put it all on and then some. i feel like he wants me to be unattractive. he hates me talking to guys (fair enough) seeing my male friend who i have known since i was 12 and asks who texts 24/7 tells me to tell my friends to leav me alone etc. he always accuses me of cheating and playing him. he always tries to buy my affection. but u know now he earnt so much money this week and he bought himself all this stuff but wouldn't buy me dinner when he used to all the time. then said he needs to save. do u think it sounds suss at all? i question him now because he does it to me all the time. and now i am the one feeling insecure because of him
2007-03-19
22:47:00 ·
update #1
my condition was anger management class.. he has an anger and jealousy problem
2007-03-19
22:48:32 ·
update #2