I lived in the states for a while and then had a job transfer and my gf stayed in the usa to finish her MBA. We talk on the phone everyday and discuess everything. The problem started when she misses our intimate moments so i adviced her to user her hands and it worked out but now she is asking me to buy toys and this is scarying me? She is catholic and i was the first and only guy she ever slept with and we r planning to get married and she is very loyal so advice me on this matter on why is she chaning to watching movies and interested in toys?
2007-03-19 22:32:13 · 5 answers · asked by diliskies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because she has a healthy interest in an enjoyable sex life and you are not there to fulfill her needs. Better she uses toys and movies than goes and finds another guy!
2007-03-19 22:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve created a sex monster and now that YOU showed or told her to take matters into her own hands, she cant get enough. You have only you to blame for this and now you cant stop her. Id say your best bet is get together as soon as possible before the toys arent enough to satisfy and something else happens. Forget the Catholic bit, shes human and a female so the religious part has nothing to do with this, so you better get her the real thing. Understand? Congrats on making what appears to be every mans dream. Good luck
2007-03-19 22:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was raised a strict catholic girl. It sounds like she is just bored using her hand as her hand can only do so much and she feels she would get more pleasure watching movies and using toys. I don't think you should feel threatened or insecure in anyway...I'm sure if she had her choice and could have the intimacy and sex she desires with you, the movies and toys wouldn't be an issue.
I think however instead of watching movies she should simply fantasize about the man she misses and desires to be intimate with instead.
2007-03-19 22:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by Intelfem7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people change during relationships sometimes for the better sometimes for the worse. It sound like your girl has awoken to new experiences and wants to experiment, you can both gain great pleasure from the tease and thrills of using toys, and as long as she wants to do it with you then just enjoy yourself and let go and experiment a little yourself.
trust me it great fun.
2007-03-19 22:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong in using toys than using other men for satisfying herslf...
feel lucky that she's honest n open to u...
u guys don't need toys...girls do...so give her few...whats ur prob?..hehe..
so chillax...n enjoy ur relationship with ur gf without such trivial matters bothering u...tc
2007-03-19 22:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋