Well, now what do I do?

Question

A year ago, i'd proposed a guy who's in my class.We were in 12th that time so he said he doen't wanna get distract&so he said'NO".I agree.Now i am still not able2forget him.I am madly in love with him.Its the very1st time.I never liked any guy b4&i dont think i would.I waited4him2get our exams over4one yr.Now we've cet exam in may.Dunno wat2do?Should i ask our common friend2tell him that i still have feelings4him,actually much stronger.Or should i stay quiet?Is it now his turn2make a move?I will even wait4the cet exams2get over if he says yes&then move with this relationship,but now i want2know atleast what he feels about me.atleast6guys pro me within this yr,but i said no bz i loved him(when i dint get2see him4 10mnths).I caught him starring at me once.As he's always with his friends around he never smiles at me(nor do i).But dont u think that by asking him out again i'll lose my respect(a a girl)?But still i dont care dear.Im ready2do anyting4him.So pls tell me wat do i do?I love him

Answer 1

sweet heart, i think u should talk to him, alone and tell him how u feel about him. but be prepare, coz we dont always get the good answer even though we hoping that he would accepting u as his girlfriend. but if u dont ask, u will never known. so, i guess the best thing is talk to him but dont ask him first. juz wait for his respon. ok. i wish u the best. and never gave up if the way's not like we planned it. u can still meet someone nicer than him, someday. take care.

Answer 2

Don't put too much hype on it. Ask him to something small like out to a cup of coffee or lunch or something. Then you could just have a normal conversation. During which time you could just ask if he has a girlfriend and if he doesn't just ask him to go out sometime... Basically, you want him to warm up to you first. Let him decide where the relationship should go. Guys get freaked out when girls just come up and confess their undying love for them out of no where. You have to take it slow, just start out as friends. Flirt with him... Tell him that he looks good and things like that.. You feel that way anyway... let him know it in subtle ways. He'll come around. :)

Answer 3

i think this is the time when u can be freinds,let him know that u dont only bother to have a relationship but willing to have freindship,coz freindship isthe start of any beautiful relationship if u think u and he can be good freinds n know,then u buddy can be good couple,remember try to first freind,n later on everything will be ok,about ur feeling i suppose leave it on time but dear prepare for evrything u cant predict future,so all i wanted to say is dont give up,if u love that guy seriously then u have to make first move y to think who sud make first when u know u can win his heart,be closed to him,not by physical but by heart thts the only way u can get him,n about EXam its a part of life dont wait keep on trying atleast start from being close freind,u make first move or he , one and lla same so here is my best of luck take care dear have a nice time

Answer 4

Look dear, firstly when you're in love, you should have patience. I think you should do like him, concentrate on your studies. After exams you can still ask him out and you'll have plenty of free times to spend together. Does it matter that much on who makes the first step? Well, I think when in love, you shouldn't care who does the first step, the most important thing is that you both are together.

Answer 5

I would definately not just wait. Maybe you should try just talking to him. Don't freak him out, just feel him out. There is nothing like a late night phone conversation to straighten things out. Let him know where you stand and if it's meant to work out it will. But it'd be a shame to let love go. Still, being a little subtle wouldn't hurt. Best of luck to you!!!

Answer 6

He is motivated to make a good life for himself. That's a good thing. Back off and let him do that. You'll know when the time is right to pursue a relationship with him.

Answer 7

How old are you again? Anyway, what do you really feel like you should do? What does your heart say? And then, think and leave your feelings. What does your brains/mind think. If your feelings and your thinking/ your heart and brains are saying the same thing - then do that. If they are split, think harder

Answer 8

talk to him about your feelings and ask him how he feels too. remember to respect his feelings and requests, but don't scare him off. he obviously knows that you like him but when you're ready and u think he is have a talk to him and get his side of the relationship, you have to remember not to get selfish...or obsessive.

Answer 9

well... the best way would be first to ask the common friend about the guy's feelings n then to take any further steps...

Answer 10

i say move on... dont go beggin any guy for attention... besides once he sees that you moved on he will prob ask you out. it is a fact...we humans want what we cant have, good luck