whats the difference between seeing sum one and bf/gf? if you have been seeing the same person for 1 year and they still havent asked you to be their gf, bcos of their circumstances what would u do?
2007-03-19 22:12:53 · 17 answers · asked by parent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bcos he could b moving 500 mile away.
2007-03-19 22:18:39 · update #1
people say have u got a bf and im like no but sort of, im seeing sum1 then their like wots that mean. arrrhhhh. then they say so you've been seeing sum 1 for a year and ur still not his gf, aaaaarrrrrhhhh
2007-03-19 22:20:57 · update #2
he is NOT seeing any1 else. i know for a fact. and he is NOT like other men
2007-03-19 22:22:24 · update #3
he said he dont wanna hurt me which is why im not his gf, cos he mite b moving, he knows i love him
2007-03-19 22:26:12 · update #4
He's using you.....Move on!!
2007-03-19 22:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on their circumstances. Sometimes "bf/gf" is just a title. If you're seeing someone for a year and you two are seeing each other exclusively, then it is the same as being in a relationship. But if the situation is such that the person is not willing to commit to you after a year, then you would probably want to try to move on.
2007-03-20 05:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki Mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been seeing the same person for a year, you obviously have a meaningful relationship, no matter how you label it. I imagine that if that person moves away, it will be painful for you, and probably for him as well. I don't know enough about your circumstances to say much else, but I hope you and he can find a way to preserve what you have, if it's making you both happy to be together. Good luck!
2007-03-20 05:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that person treating u nice, i dont think that should be a problem. i do have a same story as u. and this whole time we like bother and sister, care for each other and doesn't mean that kinda relationship can not everlasting. juz be happy with it and who knows the future. take it easy and enjoy it. am sure u know what to do for the next. good luck and wish u the best.
2007-03-20 05:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by EJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if ur bf shares the same views...but to me once a good frnd or the one ur seeing becomes a gf\bf...it takes a sharp twist n things are sometimes not the same as when u were frnds...
im afraid to mess up with my frndshp, coz there's an attitude change when a frnd turns into a gf\bf (n its not a favourable change)..
lets c...if u so keen to getting into relationship...just go ahead n tell him how u feel...y wait for him to take the initiative..at least u'll know whats in his mind....
2007-03-20 05:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by close_in_destroy_everything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you giving up in this situation- are you being a friend or a girlfriend. If you are giving alot of yourself, then sit back at look at the big picture. If asking for a title with no changes.. do you want that for yourself. Ask yourself is it worth sticking around. If it is not let it go and find anothe beau who woulg give you what you want.
2007-03-20 05:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he seeing someone else? Or in another relationship? What are the "circumstances" to which you refer? If he's not meeting your needs as far as being in an exclusive relationship, then you should concentrate your energy elsewhere.
2007-03-20 05:21:55 · answer #7 · answered by adrianne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk things out with him. communication is most important doesnt matter in relationship, frenship or family. let him know how u feel.. make things crystal n understand each other. but if talkin things out wit him doesnt work, then perhaps u should try to move on.. broaden ur range of guys.. u nkow.. mingle and get to know more people.. who knows there're guys greater than him out there.
2007-03-20 05:22:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what the circumstances were......if they are totally genuine......(not that they are married or in another relationship) .................sounds a bit fishy to me. Think I might be inclined to lay my cards on the table and force the hand one way or the other.
2007-03-20 05:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the difference is the feeling. whats the circumstances that he havent ask u to be his gf?
2007-03-20 05:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by ctkm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was u give them a couple more weeks, but if he still don't ask u y don't u try askin him out?? u'll nenver no what he'll say (most prob yes) but if he saids no them move on and just be mates (best mates) thats what i do
2007-03-20 05:36:58 · answer #11 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋