I went out with this girl for three months and i was crazy about her. she told be that she was crazy about me to and that she felt heaps for me. Then suddenly she broke it off saying that she didn't want a relationship at the moment, but she said she still had feelings for me and wanted to be friends and cared about me a lot. Well we still saw each other now and again and texed and called eached other. then the other day i asked her about this guy who she's mates with and asked if there was anything going on and she said ther wasn't and told me that she didn't want a relationship. Then i find out a couple of days later she started seeing this guy. I cant beleive it im so heart and confused i cant understand why she lied to me. I cant stop thinking about her and i just want to get her out of my head can any 1 help.
2007-03-19 22:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! If you are thinking about her b/c you feel hurt that's okay. the confussion let me end it now by telling you she doesnt like you like that. The only reason she is using the "i dont want a relationship" excuse is because she cant seem to find a way to say i am not into you, its not going to work out etc. Avoid her for a while until you heal. When you have healed and know you can handle being around her and feel nothing then reconnect with her and be her friend. You never know at that time she will probably be so interested in you because of your sudden lack of interest it will suprise you. At the moment she know's you are interested and possibly going to be there for a while. And unfortunately since it always feels good to be wanted sometimes human being's will enjoy feeling wanted at the cost of hurting and breakig another person's genuine heart.
As for what to do to get her off your mind, concentrate on some goals that you have been wanting to accomplish, go out with the boys, find others to date etc.
2007-03-20 08:52:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously she cared about you so much that she didn't want to hurt your feelings. That's why she lied to you. Sometimes when a girl doesn't want to see a guy anymore...she tries to break it off by rejecting a guy in a nice way. If you wanna stop thinking about her...try to keep yourself busy by doing something fun like do some work or go running to keep your mind off of her. The more you stop thinking about her...the faster your gonna get over her...trust me. Running is a stress reliever.
2007-03-19 22:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by DANCER_CHiCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only went out with her for 3 months. She's decided not to date you. Live with it. You are feeling rejected. Your ego is bruised coz she decided to date someone else. Maybe she lied to you because she knows you'd get hurt about it. Unfortunately you found out. Things will not always go your way.
2007-03-19 22:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sa-Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forget here and start a new life !! believe me when a women want a man and she cant live without him ... she will do the best she can to keep him !!
........ i know you cant forget here by couple of days .. you need time to forget so be patient and try to not think about here ( do anything , go with your friends , go out with some body Else , and the important thing do not listen for romantic songs or sad songs ... keep away of listen to any love songs .. i try it )!!
and you should not back to here .... (you are not a toy for her to play with u )!! you must be strong ... and who sell you you should sell him !!
2007-03-19 22:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by ranosha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the bad stuff about her and find a person to love that way your focus is on the other girl not to your ex,.!
don't see her again cause things will always begin again if you remember her.
2007-03-19 22:18:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she your first love u wont forget about her........ just go out with your buddies ......get drunk and have some sex with some random girls u meet at the clubs.. remember wrap it up.....thats the only way to get her out of your head .....
2007-03-19 22:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the bad stuff about her.
2007-03-19 22:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never been HEART before---how did she HEART you ?
2007-03-19 22:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋