i have a boyfriend but we haven't kissed yet. i have this classmate who was friend at the same time and he has a girlfriend but they don't have communication anymore. i like this guy so much and i think i'm already inlove with him. he was always sweet to me. i slept with him and a few days later, he was asking me if i'm okay and he was asking me why did i slept with him because he felt guilty about it. he's not sweet to me anymore but he was still talking to me specially about the thing that we did. i told him that i feel guilty too and i love my boyfriend. her girlfriend broke up with him and he was dating someone new, someone he likes so much. i don't know why he was trying to talk to me about my feelings for him, about what we did and some things about my life. i caught him staring at me lots of times and because we were friends, we still talk like we were before and we still spend time with each other. he was a funny guy. by the way, he always touch my hair and he use to imitate me
2007-03-19 22:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why so confusing ? You are so bad to your current bf. Why go and sleep with the guy n then remain frens ? Why can't both of you breakoff with your current bf/gf, and be together, since both of you so compatible.
If he say he felt guilty to you, it's a joke of the century. Well, trying to sweet talk you into another encore, cause as you mention, he's not as sweet as b4, but you both still sharing the same wave length.
I believe you both are very compatible with either one, as both also can be together even both parties got their own partner.
If my partner knew that i slept with fren, i can guess what will be the outcome.
Good luck in your decision.
2007-03-19 22:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You must accept that he just slept with you because of "nothing" but only "we did it" thats all. He just likes your companionship. If he likes u to be his gf he will be your boyfriend before that sex happens that u are just friends. He might prefer to be ur buddy not a gf. If you love him, make it sure. If u do, tell him and lets see what he'l gonna do. If u slept with him once, it will happen again. Remember, a guy will do everything just to get the girl they really want. if not, at least they will do something just to inform the girl about what they feel.. words and in action. So if dont feel anything he likes you more than a friend.. U know wat to do now.
2007-03-20 06:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you had sex ( you did not sleep) together before you were married and committed to each other, therefore the trust factor has broken down and the ervasive thought is who else has she slept with was I really the first or am I just a mark. he will probably never repsect you again and you probably wont or dont respect him nor can you ever trust each other again.
you have both chosen the more difficult path in life and may well have relationship difficulties all your life. too bay, judging by your writing you are both young and still in school and have a long life to go.
2007-03-20 05:12:04 · answer #3 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just hope I'm wrong with my assumption...I think the reason why he's not that sweet anymore is bec. he already knows how much you like him and that he doesn't feel like it's necessary to show his affection...why even try? If you already slept with him and he is not even your bf. Maybe for him, it was just a 1 night stand thing...u know guys. I think next time you should try to play hard to get. Some guys like girls that are playing hard to get...it makes them want the girl more. Good luck
2007-03-20 05:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by FlyingHi007 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me like both of you are kind of confused right now about your feelings- toward one another and toward the ones you are "with"... if the two of you have strong feelings for each other (and want to be together), then maybe you should consider being single first... how can you take anything too seriously with one another when you are both committed to other people?
2007-03-20 05:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like it meant more to him than you thought. That is good that you were not just a one night stand.
2007-03-20 05:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard of friends with benefits..this is whats going on most likely
keep your clothes on and all will be fine the rest of your life..
2007-03-20 05:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NUMBER ONE I HATE TO ANSWER A QUESTION WITH A QUESTION, BUT WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE LIKE D YOU BEFORE YOU SLEPT WITH HIM? CAUSE IF HE DID'T CHANCES ARE HE STILL DON'T. ASK HIM.
2007-03-20 05:07:18 · answer #8 · answered by jestwanaknow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
even if he leaves you he wont forget you because yall wer fried and you slept with him
2007-03-20 05:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it sounds like that he was just using you cuz he got bored w/his gf. move on.
2007-03-20 05:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by DANCER_CHiCK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋