Is it worth waiting?He is hardly talking to the point,he loves being vague and when questioned he remains silent.What do you make out of all the talks that he leaves incomplete and leaves you hanging,guessing.And despite of all this you still love him like crazy..
2007-03-19 21:57:43 · 16 answers · asked by missn_01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guard your heart and walk on ice! Let him know his silence is making you nervous and if he cares for you he will speak out.. Sometime silence means confusion......
2007-03-19 22:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How important is it to you that he says he loves you? Are you miserable about the fact that he's vague and doesn't share his feelings?
Just remember that however he makes you feel right now in those respects will only amplify over the course of time. You'll feel it even worse in 6 months, a year, five years. And if this is how he is now, then you can't say in the future, "Oh well I thought he would change." You have to assume he won't change.
So if you can be fine with how he is (it sounds like you're not) then by all means, attempt a relationship with him. If it bugs you, it's only going to get worse and you *should* (although you probably *won't*) just forget about him and find someone else that will make you genuinely happy.
Don't go into a relationship with the intent on fixing someone. You'll *always* be disappointed.
2007-03-19 22:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by um yeah... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying i love you is something big , he has his reasons , maybe afraid of commitment , maybe its too soon , or he had his heart broken. If you KNOW he does then its worth the waiting and when the comes you'll be glad you waited because it'll be more special knowing that he really means it.
2007-03-19 22:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by dancrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's much more exciting when the cards aren't always layed out right away. Possibly he really really likes you and feels he shouldn't rush it, because he doesn't want to ruin it. Have some patience, but it you're beginning to have doubts try becoming aloof from him and see if he comes to you.
2007-03-19 21:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to find a man not say i love u not from his heart, than one saying loves u everyday without any meaning...
maybe he is shy a little bit.. but wait for the right moment...until he will say it in right moment... dear good luck
2007-03-19 22:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask him direct questions so he can give you a direct answer. I think that should get him to talk more or at least think more. Good luck.
2007-03-27 19:13:56 · answer #6 · answered by bluegirl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should make first move, tell him now you really feel, be straight up front, dint hold back, you'll either turn him on, or scar him away,either way he'll know how you feel, you've helped him alta lot in the long run,go for it girl
2007-03-27 18:46:44 · answer #7 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will only know of he express his love and his deep feelings for you if he speaks to you. talk to him and if he still leaves you hanging you have to decide what is best for you take care
2007-03-19 22:05:04 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient. Wait and wait and wait until he say it to you.
2007-03-27 20:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by santos_maraiah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him listen to your i love yous and he will reciprocate soon.
2007-03-19 22:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋