At the age of 28 I have begun attending church groups in the last month.
On the first night I met a 25 yo lady who seemed to want to talk to me. We were having a good conversation but since it was getting late I cut it off.
When I saw her next she asked for my email and phone number so she could send me more info about the group, which she did via email - why did she need my phone number?
there was an activity day last weekend where I saw her again. She had her nice shoes on. I didn't talk to her much as I wanted to meet the other people. On my way leaving the church I saw her waiting around with her friends she told me we can have coffee to discuss anything. I didn't think much about it at that time so I politely suggested a lift home if she was stuck, said goodbye and left.
She has crossed my mind since so I want to give her further attention. I don't know what is appropriate behaviour in these spiritual situations?
2007-03-19 21:53:04 · 13 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
If she is a godly woman, why not?
Just make sure of her spiritual life before doing anything.
Not that you musn't talk to her. :D
2007-03-19 21:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by DWReyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appropriate behavior would be taking things slowly--if you'd like to get to know her better, or if you feel attracted to her, then call her and schedule a coffee date (a common opening date for young Christian singles). Typically in fairly conservative Christian circles, men and women interact primarily in groups. So the fact that she mentioned having coffee with you alone would signal (at least in the circles I grew up in) an interest in you. She would expect you to take the next step, especially since she is a woman (many Christian women expect the man to be the leader/initiator in the relationship). She would also want to know your beliefs before going very far into a romantic relationship. Physical intimacy would be taken slowly.
Hope that helps!
2007-03-20 05:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by kacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you just got to church, they are all going to greet you and get your phone number for follow up groups, but I say be real nice and go not for her so much as to gain the knowledge of God and his spirit, Girls are a hindrance to this. So gain more of Gods spirit and less of the girls and he will bring you the right one at the right time, but he lead you there to learn his word! start in john and read to the end!
2007-03-20 05:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by bungyow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing great. I think that what it is going to boil down to eventually is your relationship with Jesus. Most women who are spiritual are going to be in love with Christ. The closer you become to GOD through Christ the more the Holy Spirit shines through. That will be what attracts them. The very same Holy Spirit will drive them away if there is something not right with the relationship.
That's my take on it.
2007-03-20 05:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Bye Bye 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try these. be friendly, talk normally to her if that's what you want. those things happened in some church groups, girl looking for a guy and vice verse, but if you think that friendship its going far from Spiritual Intentions, don't try nothing else if you don't want to fail in moral certainty. or in christian therms
Distraction and fail in sin.
the rest its up to you.
May God Bless you and guide to you.
ciao.
2007-03-20 05:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by No toy aqui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't get enough bites last time you asked this, hey? Or the time before, or the time before that. Are the answers any more entertaining in Singles & Dating?
Edit: heh heh, should've known acid would've been all over this one...
2007-03-20 05:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you do things appropriately then why not. If she fancies you and you fancy her, go for it! My advice would be to go get a coffee and take things at a good pace.
2007-03-20 05:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by chicgirl639 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you will see her at church or the next church gathering.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-03-20 04:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place your trust in God when it comes to new relationships. Ask and you will recieve. Be certain to discern your decisions.
2007-03-20 05:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by mariselasman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She fancys you mate! Have a bit of confidence and go for it if you fancy her. :0
2007-03-20 05:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Judas. S. Burroughs. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋