what can you do if you find u r in love with 2 women at once, when u r with one person but u feel u r still deeply in love with an ex and still want her
2007-03-19 21:47:33 · 14 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are not in love with both. You like something about one of them, but you want something that the other had. It's not love, it's called lust. Forget about your ex, she's old news.
2007-03-19 21:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope I will never be in your situation, neither in your gf's situation. One thing you can do at least if you have some feelings with your present partner is ask for some time and stop dating her. I know almost sure that you will crash her heart any way or another, but it's preferable that pain to reach in time to the conclusion that you were with her while you were loving someone else. Take a time and stop playing with her and with your self, love is not a game!. Be sensitive, and re-think what is what you really want. Hope you will find more wisdom in time.
2007-03-19 22:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by b-clear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be on your own for a while to get your feelings sorted have a 2 week break from the girl your seeing just now and that will give you time to think about what you want and feel if you miss her and long for her then you know you want to be with her, but if your going to be with her you have to stop feeling for your ex she doesn't want you or she would be with you move on and be with this nice girl who wants to be with you, but take the break first and clear your head.
2007-03-19 22:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by suzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont think its possible 2 be in lon=ve with them both u r probably jus in lust!! There is obviously something about each of these 2 women that fasicnates u. To be in love u wud wanna be with the person all the time not be able to get them out of your head love is very deep feelings not jus fancying some1 or wnting them in a sexual way it goes way past that. So i think you need to think deep down which 1 if any of them you feel that way about.
2007-03-19 21:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you shouldnt be with the woman that you're with when you're thinking of your ex! Anyway - you cant really be in love with two people - its more of a case of lust for one - and love for the other
If you cant commit totally to the one you're with - for want of your ex - then you need to do the right thing and end it. you can then - either go after your ex - or just stay single long enough until you're over her.
xx
2007-03-20 00:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way you are love with both of these ladies. Maybe you love one and lust the other. If you are looking for a companion to share things with not just physical- sit down and be honest with yourself. Do want to be happy? Basically look at the overal picture here and pick wisely.
2007-03-19 21:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your feelings are that strong with your ex, why is she your ex? did she dump you, or the other way round? if she dumped you, then its understandable you have feelings that havnt gone away entirely, if you dumped her, then look at the reasons why. it is possible to love more than 1 person at a time, but its usually in different ways. if you still want your ex, it isnt fair on your current partner to stay in the relationship with her, even if nothing happened again with your ex, you need to get your head straight before getting involved with someone else
2007-03-19 22:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ot a good place to be and is probably the mind playing games with you. What I think you might be saying is you want to know you are desired by two women and that you can in fact juggle hearts and minds. Make your choice and stick with it and severe contact with the other....it is the only way . Else will end in hurt and tears and potential to have no one.
2007-03-19 22:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This call selfishess and egoistic. U just need a security net for yourself to fall on, if anything goes wrong with either one of the girls. Loving someone is to share your thoughts, your everything with her.
Do wake up b4 u lose both of them. Playing with fire will burnt you out. Trust me.
2007-03-19 21:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should decide who you want because if you don't, those two women may end up hurt. Try spending time with both of them. Maybe you'll realize who you really are in love with and who you really want to spend life with.
2007-03-19 21:52:42 · answer #10 · answered by (>.<) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋