I read an email that he sent her and he backed his way out of it. what do should I do?
2007-03-19 21:43:27 · 12 answers · asked by jmattiace29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about it first, you might be out of luck of somewhere to live. Why don't you talk to him first, but don't bring up that you had read the email. If you feel lied to then, you should leave him.
2007-03-19 21:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by cashew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How serious are you about this guy? Were you roommates and then started dating? Is the relatiohship exclusive? The grounrules of the relationship need to be extablished before you make any rash decisions. I don't know the rest of the email, and i'm not sure how you feel about it. Honesty is always best... you can have an open discussion without bringing up the email which will simply complicate things and change the focus of the conversation which is what are you guys going to do.
Are you in love with him? Do you think this relationship could be forever? Time for a heart to heart. If you catch him in a lie, you can confront him and see how he takes it. If you are that important to him, then he will drop the lovey-dovey emails to his ex.
good luck and protect your heart, you deserve the love of a good person.
2007-03-20 05:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Robert S. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should atleast take a break from the relationship. This will give him time to think about who he actually loves and will give you time to think about what you want to do.
Sometimes it helps to take a step back and look at the situation as a third person.
Don't worry things will work out alright.
2007-03-20 05:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Karma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him is it really over between him and his ex. How long ago id he and his ex break up. He might have some residual feelings. Or he might just be a jerk that got caught trying to dip in the cookie jar.
2007-03-20 04:47:46 · answer #4 · answered by mundo808 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say but yes leave.. there is no reason for anyone who is living with you or in just a relationship to be in contact with an ex and hide it as well... unless they have kids together, then yes there has to be contact...I always say if your not happy leave
2007-03-20 04:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer this question and you will know what to do. Do I want to be loved wholly and truly like I deserve, or do I want to be with someone who thinks I am just second best? You decide, I think you already know. Good luck sweetie, God bless.
2007-03-20 04:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by Shyler 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want him as a roommate and want to keep the relationship plutonic and businesslike, keep it at that. You should go out and find another love match for yourself, regardless.
2007-03-20 04:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get over her before you can have a serious relationship with him. It might be best to leave him until he can get himself together.
2007-03-20 04:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RIGHT AWAYYYYYYYYYY!!!! he is no good for u , if he still has the hots for his ex-flames...these kind are dangerous...they want their cake and wanna eat it too....he just keeping u as a back up....beware of this WOLF.
2007-03-20 04:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by blueknight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with blueknight. Sounds like this guy is using you.
2007-03-20 04:48:39 · answer #10 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋