So there is this guy and we are "friends with benefits", but sometimes the way he act is leading me to think that he wants more, like a relationship. He text me everyday and when I don't anwser his text he calls my phone. Also, when he's somewhere and I walk in he just stares at me but doesn't say anything. And sometimes his friends do the talking for him. He begs me to come over and chill with him and I'm just tired of his stupid little imature games. So what is up with this guy?
2007-03-19 21:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should ask him if he has more feelings for you. Or maybe just not talk to him for a few days and see what happens. If he calls and texts you like crazy, I'd be pretty sure that he wants more than just a fling.
2007-03-19 21:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is" what do you want?". You guys are "friends with benefits" but it seems as though he getting a little bit more into you. If you like the situation you are in with him or want something more, maybe it time to sit down and talk with him to see what the two of you are expecting. This will probably hepl get the other answers you are seeking.
2007-03-19 21:41:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His little immature games. He's putn up sign everywhere for you. Be a lady and read the signs and make your move. Only if hes your type for a relationship. Slow and shy or fast and straight forward. You decide your type.... Throw some Al Green on.........
2007-03-19 21:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake him up: SPEAK (don't text) and ask him "Are you man enough to speak to me--or are you gonna let your friends speak for you? I got ZERO TOLERANCE for immature boy games and CONSTANT TEXT MESSAGES; I WANT A MAN. So which are you? Take some time, find out--and let me know. Oh....be honest with yourself there....and CHOOSE WISELY".
Give him some days to figure this out, brace up for him to fail and be ready for this. However, if he DOES care for you--this should wake him up into taking the steps needed to grow up and be the man you seek and hope he really is. If he isn't that man.....he's out....live on...and find what you really want.
2007-03-19 21:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you and doesn't know if he should make the first move. Why don't you confront him and ask him if he likes you? It may be hard for you to do but at least it'll ease things out.
2007-03-19 21:38:50 · answer #5 · answered by (>.<) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats up with you? if you are seeing this, why not ask him? I'm saying, you must like it, you won't say anything.
Not calling him or talking to him, you will be playing more games
2007-03-19 21:36:46 · answer #6 · answered by Reesie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is SHY.
i think you're right. he definitely wants a relationship with you.
i think you should do the talking for him.
try to ask him about his feelings more.
maybe he'll tell his feelings afterwards.
2007-03-19 21:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by syaoran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give him anymore benefits and see how he reacts.
2007-03-19 21:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mista R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess with wat u said..the guy has feelings for u..obviously more that a friend..nd hez waitin for the right time to tell u that..hez jus slowin thingz down..so if ur fed up i can alwayztalk to him bout it..but if u can wait..then wait!!
2007-03-19 21:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by khokha_babe_daloo3a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he likes you....
2007-03-19 21:38:14 · answer #10 · answered by n_n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋