I've been dating this guy for 3 months. We haven't even kissed yet. I need to kiss him to find out if I'm sexually attracted to him. I think he is too shy to make the first move. Should I make the first move? And how? I have never had to make the first move before. Also, if I do like him physically, how long should I wait before I sleep with him? He is one of the nicest guys I've ever met.
2007-03-19 21:29:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should just kinda say to him "I think we should have our first kiss..." and see what happens.
Or just try leaning in on him and don't think twice about it or you won't be able to do it! If you like him physically, you should wait until you are both completely ready. You'll definatly know when the time is right.
Good luck with everything.
2007-03-19 21:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you don't have to rush things. You don't have to kiss him...or sleep with him, to know if you're sexually attracted to him. Why don't you get to know him better? And guys should make the first move, not girls. But if you don't want to wait for him to make the first move, you could just help him out. And if he's too shy, get more closer to him so he will be open to you.
2007-03-20 04:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by (>.<) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have such a special friendship right now. He respects you for who you are not by what you can offer sexually, you should be honoured.
Take this relationship one step and a time and everything will fall into place. Enjoy the honesty and you will see that it will bring you very far with him.
Just keep being honesty and open with him.
A beautiful friendship like this does not come around very often.
Enjoy !!!!
2007-03-20 04:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by bellacanadian_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move....be creative. Allow a few more months for solid development of relationship. Afterwards, let HIM make the first move to make love---but drop hints on WHEN it's the "right time" to make such moves.
2007-03-20 04:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What its been 3 months and no tongue action! No thats abit weird, well just catch him off guard when you want to kiss him because if you catch a guy off guard when you kiss him then you'll know how much you/ will like it!
2007-03-20 04:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Shy Kaapie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my girlfriend told me that " My all friends told me that if anybody kiss me by nighttime , tommorow's exam will be very good." There was a exam next day and i was forced to kiss
2007-03-20 04:37:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is still early to make a move..coz u knw u dnt wana make a move to ruien ok or to regret about it later on..y dnt u jus sit witt him nd watch a movie..nd then randomly look at him nd say:..baby kiss me..thatz cute..nd bout the sleepin thing u should wait as well..good luck!!
2007-03-20 04:34:55 · answer #7 · answered by khokha_babe_daloo3a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're having a hard time kissing i don't think you should be considering sleeping with someone. when you 2 are alone, and not talking, pull him close and just do it.
2007-03-20 04:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ bp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to kiss to be attracted to someone sexually.
you wait until youre ready, whatever your upbringing. peace
2007-03-20 04:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋