Well at work i have a co-worker, where we get along somewhat pretty well! Well heres the question! She has a friend who comes in to our store every once in awhile and i really like her! I'll smile at her when she walks in just to be polite! And acouple of times i'll glimps at her and our eyes will meet for that brief second! We have talked a few times but nothin major or any big conversation wise!
What i was wondering was how should i aprouch her? Should i ask her to hang out mself, sould i go through her friend, or should i o through myspace to stat talking to her; i have her friend my co-worker added as one of my friends and i have notice that she is on the top 8 of her friends, or is there something else i should do??
And advice would be welcome!!
Thanks a lot!!
2007-03-19 21:03:39 · 19 answers · asked by slie930 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take the bull by the horns!! Go up to her yourself and ask. She will think that it is pretty cool.....confidence is sexy. Going through a friend, or the internet is safer...but also lamer. Good luck.
2007-03-19 21:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nex time she comes in to the store, ask her out. dont just straight up and ask her, make it known that u wanna spend time with her but without making it so obvious. first do what u always do and smile at her, catch her attention and start a conversation with her like how she doin, how's her day ect. then try and make her laugh or smile, ask her what is her favorite food, favorite type of movie, or what she like to do for fun and once u do that then say "hey listen are u free this weekend (or whenever your free)?" then use the information u jus obtained about her to your advantage. for ex. "i kno this great italian restuarant downtown and i was wondering if u were free this weekend, afterwards we can go catch a quick flick if you want or take a walk and talk, get to kno each other a little better." if u dont feel comfortable with this approach then start talkin to her through myspace and hit it off from there
2007-03-20 04:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Romeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go through myspace, that'll make you look like a jerk.
As for going through a friend, how good of a friend? How will your relationship with her change if it doesn't work out? Is it all worth it?
Now let's be serious, you have made eye contact with this girl on several occasions. That's hardly a basis for starting a relationship. Don't you know anything about her?
2007-03-20 04:09:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ask your co-worker about her friend. Then your co-worker would understand that you're interested in her friend. Then ask her to help you. Maybe the three of you can go out together, then the next time it must be only the two of you going out.
2007-03-20 04:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to step up to the plate, forget that you're shy, and ask her out for a cup of coffee "to get to know her better". Stay off of Myspace and simply ask her. What's the worst that can happen? She might say she has a boyfriend and then you can tell her that you think she's a really nice girl. And, she might say "Yes, I'd love to!". Women like men to be brave and to pursue them a bit. Give it a shot!
2007-03-20 04:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, grow up--you want info--ask your friend--this gal might have a guy already---or you aren't her type--you wont know till you man up and ask!! And stop with the stupid computer, make a date and meet face to face like a human being--walk up, smile, say hello--good God, get a grip. You want a date??? Ask for one--don't sit in your house cranking it to the computer. Good luck
2007-03-20 04:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach her when you get the chance be relaxed and confident.. Ask her to dinner and a movie just something to break the ice. Then go from there. Always remember that its better to have tryed and failed then have never tryed at all. Go for you will not regret it.
2007-03-20 04:10:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jacob P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start simple...just send her a message on myspace saying something innocent and funny about her trips to the store. If she really does like you, she'll reply back...and from there go with it!
2007-03-20 04:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by No joke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude , theres a differnce in work friend relationship and outta work relation ships, keep them separte of its hell, trust me , its a good way to end up on the unemployed list, but your probaly just a wee lad so, stop being a pussy, and go talk to her, what do you got to lose? your lil 5 dollar an hour job? or your EGO, which you probaly dont have making that kinda wage...i mean really what girl wants a guy who makes that?? hahahaha- im just messing , do it bro, do it
2007-03-20 04:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time your eyes meet with her's, follow it up with an introduction. She obviously seems attracted to you, too. If you're kind of shy, have your co-worker introduce both of you to one another. Then go from there...
2007-03-20 04:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋