Okay well I'm a 13 yearold girl this year and had a crush on a guy for 5 years now!
Which is frustrating cos I really like him , but I can't tell if he likes me back!what sorta things should you look for to tell if a guy likes you?????
Please help and don't say I'm too young to be thinking about this sorta stuff , cos I know most of you would have had a crush when you were my age too!
2007-03-19 21:02:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i was 13, I knew a guy liked me because everytime he talked to me, he would smile the whole time. And then we would date and break up in 2 days.
2007-03-19 21:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Laurellamags 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've had a crush on a guy since you were 8 years old???? And now you're an old lady of 13. How come you weren't playing dolls at age 8? Or trucks or cars or something other than having a crush??? Ok, so 13 year old kids have crushes on other folks. If he's a friend of yours now, then you might just really want to enjoy a friendship with him....as you get older you just never know where it can lead! You could also just tell him that you think he's special, but that might also make him uncomfortable if all he wants is friendship. Either way, take your time and focus on having fun during these years. And what are you doing up so late on a school night????
2007-03-20 04:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by JennyP 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at 13, I was usually hanging out with boys AND girls, so is he part of your social circle? Does he hang out with you and your friends and does he try to spend time alone with you? (and I dont mean in a sexual way here, like does he suggest playing one on one basketball or stuff like that? Things where its just the two of you)
If he seems to enjoy your company you can be sure he likes you as a friend for sure but as for anything else, its so hard to know when your still young - sorry I know u didnt want anyone to harp on that but it does make a difference.
If you wanna show him your interested, try being the one to suggest the things you can do together, just the two of you - this wont rouse any suspicion if your already friends but it will be a signal for him.
I had so many crushes at your age and one or two that lasted yrs...but with the wisdom of age I am soooooo glad I never had a relationship with them so good luck and enjoy checking out whats out there for as long as you possibly can :o)
2007-03-20 04:10:09 · answer #3 · answered by karma_au_1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are now 13yrs, it means that you started having a crush on this guy at the age of 8. I wonder what you think you knew about these feelings at that age.
Forget about this guy and concentrate on your studies. The responsibilities attached to this adventure will be too much for your young shoulders.
2007-03-20 04:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by comradechris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see......maybe since you are both quite young you should write him a note, for starters. Tell him how you feel, and you want to meet him. Beyond that, I would have your Mom and you take him to a movie or something, or at least drop you off at the mall to meet up with him. You have to also remember that girls your age mature much faster than boys so don't expect him to say somethng like, "Oooooo, I hate girls." He may not be ready for a friendship, even tho' you may be. You have your whole teen years left to worry about more serious friendships. Don't worry if this one falls through. Most of them will at your age.
2007-03-20 04:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is now time for sorta stuff it comes and go with out you know.so the problem is not who will say it is about if you love him my advise to you to go a head and try to make you move have a nice day and god luck.
2007-03-20 04:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by jardanian boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi if you like it or not i still like to advice you you are too young to decide my dear at this age 13 is very tender for a girl to like boys wait till you are 18 and then decide why i am telling you this is when you think at 13yrs and when you think at 18yrs it a vast difference by then you will be able to finish your studies and you will be a women .where you will be able to analyze what is good for you .at this age you get only infatuation and not love .take care and bless you
2007-03-20 04:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy ways to tell,
He will act like a total idiot around you. Jumping around like a monkey and screaming like a moron.
He will make every attempt possible to have some physical contact with you. Hand, shoulder, knee, it doesn't matter.
He will try to get you to pay attention to him, to watch what he's doing.
Expect him to smile and sigh alot.
2007-03-20 04:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE DA FIRST MOVE..... start it of wid a casual talk ....try to hint him that u are attracted towards him ...if he is also interested...he doesnt want all the truth ,but he wants the real you....he doesnt want to see all your feelings at once ..but he does want to see it. Be cool if u get frustrated u will mess it all up. be calm......u can get him ....if u really want. good luck. GOD BLESS YOU.
2007-03-20 04:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by ADITYA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell if he also likes you by the way he looks at you and he'll always find a reason to be near you.
2007-03-20 04:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋