There is this Guy that i met 3months ago. He is everyting i have always wanted in a guy, his like my Prince Charming, I never ever thought i would find someone like him, The best part is that he also likes me.
The only thing that is bothering me is that we are worlds apart.
He is a billionare - he has women always after him, He lives this lavish life but yet with alll his wealth he is still so humble, He has such a good heart , he treats everyone with respect regardless of who you are.
I know im talking in circles, its just i feel he is way too good for me, he has such a good character, Im not a horrible person but i just think he would be better off with someone thats a better person then me. Also I am jus a normal working class women & he has this busy life of flying around the world on business trips & he has bodygaurds, He even has his own Chef. I would be to plain to fit into his life of luxury.
2007-03-19 20:58:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is I really like him, I cant let him go, its so difficult , i know he could find someone more to his kind of people & he would be better off marrying someone who is used to his lifestyle.
2007-03-19 21:00:03 · update #1
He really likes me even told his mom about me. I dont know what to do.
Have any of you been in this situation, please what do i do ?
2007-03-19 21:01:36 · update #2
His has everything
Money
Looks
Personality
Charm
I just am so confused right now.
2007-03-19 21:03:32 · update #3
sometimes i wish he didnt have all that money, it would be alot easier
2007-03-19 21:05:42 · update #4
Did it ever occur to you that maybe he doesn't want any of those fakey-fake women who have absolutely no clue about what is really important? I know lot of people who are very wealthy, and they ***** about the various "protocol" invovled with "the lifestyle" They roll their eyses on the phone, etc. Maybe he is a "real person" who happens to have lots of money. He is looking for something that is REAL. If you are that person to him, then he will love you all the more for it. I fhe is humble and all of the things that you say, then I say go for it. He can teach you about yachting, and you can teach him the fine art of "garage sailing"
2007-03-19 21:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way i see it is that u are afraid to get involved into something so serious with this guy, u are intimidated by his wealth. he may have everything in the world but did u ever stop and think that he is looking for just an average girl rather than a gold digger? did u ever stop and think that maybe u may fit into all of this perfectly even though he travels a lot? if both of u got a connection then why mess it up jus cause u think u are not worth it. beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. to him you could be perfect and knows that u deserve the best in every way. dont give up so easily and dont feel helpless. let the guy cater to u. :)
2007-03-19 21:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Romeo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is go slow in the relationship. You can't know someone really well in just three months. Your feelings make you see only the positive things in him now.
Visit his family, see how he treats his mother and other family members. See, how accepting they are of you, because you are not only marrying him, but you would also become part of his family.
Let him take you to some of his social activities, where you see how he acts toward other women. Is he a flirt with other women? How does he treat them and how does he treat you in that environment?
Then evaluate how you feel being in his circles. Is it a constant stress on you? Or can you relax and be yourself? Or are you constantly intimidated by all the glare and glitter of high society?
Too many young people get married in the first wave of emotion and attraction, and after a few years things become stale, and they either divorce, or coexist in silent hatred, or open fights.
2007-03-19 22:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by pinkrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if you really like someone, and of course they like you too..it really shouldnt matter what their income is or their "status" is..as far as "living the luxureous life"..it isnt one of those "opposites attract" things because; how much money you have or if youre famous or whatever..doesnt make you who you are! What is important is that the two of you connect and care about eachother. I mean, I know what youre saying: You think he would be better off with a women of his "class" and social standing right? Well, obviously to him that doesnt matter. He likes YOU! The only thing I'd worry about is his traveling and not getting to spend enough time together. You can try to make it work. You never know. What i would do is, just keep in contact, talk to him frequently so you can really get to know him..then decide and talk about it. Good luck.
2007-03-19 21:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by Minty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa....................................um, hey. Listen up. It's not the money that's bothering you. You are trying to convince yourself of something here. Not sure what it is. But if you have to list things out here to convince you then only you know the real reason. Love isn't measured by checkbooks and bank accounts. Love means NEVER and I mean NEVER having to question anything. I'd begin to explore what it is that is really bothering you and then deal with it first before trying to convince anyone to answer for ya. I call it, looking for the majority of answers to consider when really it's only involving you asking yourself this question. And then including HIM in what it is you decided and how to answer it that both of you would understand.
2007-03-19 21:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, why r u under estimating urself?
love shouldn be about ur lifestyle or anyother issue, even it might causes some problems..but the most imp. thing is both of ur feelingz..so if ur attached to him,,and he shares the same feeling..then u should totally ignore the environment surrounding u..nd dnt ever do sometin u knw ull regret later..so i strongly advice u to follow ur heart..which im sure tells u..to stay with him..since ur both happy together..so enjoy ur life with the person who cares about u and with the person that u care bout..good luck..
2007-03-19 21:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by khokha_babe_daloo3a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with you? Apparently, with all his wealth and power, he sees something special in you that he really likes. Maybe he wants a "normal" working class girl. Go with the flow and see where things ends up!
2007-03-19 21:07:32 · answer #7 · answered by No joke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should stress so much about this. If you are really interested, you should pursue it and let him decide if you are good enough for him or not. Don't try to make that decision for him. If he is what you say (humble, good heart, respectful) then you may be surprised.
2007-03-19 21:13:28 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, then go for it. So what if there are many women after him? As long as he spend most of his time with you.
2007-03-19 21:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the very ultimate thank you to tutor him on is to ask your self him. Make the pass on him in an unusual region or placing. wreck any scheduling conduct you have additionally. The greater you communicate approximately it, he will in all risk advance uncomfortable. in case you play the feminist viewpoint...he will no longer choose for it.
2016-10-01 05:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by barnell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋