The other night i dreampt of lying on the bed with a guy having sex with me, it felt sooo real. Then a week or two ago i had two dreams of having a orgasim. im 14 and ive never had sex, or fingerd myself, now instead of seeing a hot guy and think that hes hot i imagine having sex with him. Is something wrong with me?
2007-03-19 20:04:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hot people are everywhere. Let me tell you a quick story:
I once dreamt of an amazingly hot, sexy cleaning lady (around age 89) eating my ***** ****** and ****** four times! it was amazingly. When I saw my cleaning lady, i jumped on it and was sued! Then I bought an umbrella and spanked her until her *** was so red that I could see my reflection in it!
Understand?
2007-03-23 13:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by JR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's a single thing "wrong" with anything you just mentioned! You're 14, you have hormones racing through your body, and what you're experiencing is perfectly normal and probably experienced by a lot of people your age. Those feelings can be very overwhelming sometimes, and there's nothing wrong with that. Do be careful how you choose to act on those feelings, however. You don't want to end up pregnant at 14. There's not a thing wrong with "pleasuring yourself"... most people do it, they just don't really like to admit it or talk about it much. (It's a private and personal thing, but a natural and normal thing, too!) But it's a better alternative than to take the risks of doing the "real thing". People who are sexually active and using some type of birth control still run the risk of pregnancy and contracting sexually transmitted diseases. Don't be in a rush to grow up too fast...you're only young once, and a having a baby (at 14) could take all that away...and more. Be careful.
2007-03-20 03:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope..just a normal teen---hey, relax and don't act just yet. You are too young and there is too much to learn about sex and who should be having it. Craving it is a reaction to your feelings--but get informed before you do anything---especially since disease and babies can come from random sex acts with just any old partner that wanders by. It is a serious show of love and caring for adults with maturity, respect, and love.You will have all that soon enough...so be careful and get informed first.
2007-03-20 03:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear, nothing is wrong with you. You are in puberty and it is natural to feel attraction at this age. It is perfectly natural to dream of having sex or fantasize having sex, though keep in mind that you do not reflect these actions outside your bedroom. I mean don't go to a random guy asking for sex.
Though one thing concerns me? How did you know about sex? Did you learn it somewhere earlier or watch porn? If yes, then its perfectly okay. But if you dreamt of having sex without having ever acquainted with it(i.e earlier you didn't know what sex actually is but you had a dream about it), it is a little unusual...though not an issue....
To sum it up don't worry its completely okay to dream of sex.
If you have any doubts, feel free to email me...
2007-03-20 03:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by somesh_mukherjee 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey Emma, nothing is wrong with you! Get over it! i had these dreams too but i was way older. You sure are horny all right. But control your libido. Its way out of hand!
Girl you sure will get your chance to experiment, but i guess you should wait for a good 3-4 years before trying something.
Remember patience pays!
2007-03-20 10:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Skaziola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is plenty of stuff going on inside you now. There is nothing wrong with you at all. But do not act on these feelings because you will put your self at risk. You want your mind and body to be ready for a committed relationship that is safe and satisfying. That's why we wait. Your doing fine and your perfect, don't worry about a thing.
2007-03-20 03:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Ron H 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
There ain't nothing wrong with ya honey. It's natural, but before you go off and have sex with anyone, remember to always be safe! Hell you bring the condoms so you know you will be! Better to be safe than popping out kids when you're still a kid. After that it's bye-bye youth! But really if you can sustain, just experiment with yourself first. It's safe, fun, and you learn more about yourself that you can share with others when the time is right :)
2007-03-20 03:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Hooligan 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You sound like you want some weirdo to pop up and mess with you. You should be Carefull!!! I have a little girl, and if I knew she wrote something like this, It would be a long time before she would have access the computer by herself again. Wake up.....Little Girl. Watch the news...
2007-03-20 03:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by mac-won 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me nothing's wrong with you... go to my profile and click on the questions I've asked... I had the same thing happen to me. just before you go to bed try not to think about anything ecept for the pledge of allegience. and I doubt you'll dream of them again. but seriously read what people wrote to me it really helped. let me know if you need anymore help
2007-03-20 03:10:43 · answer #9 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its absolutely normal...just dont go & sleep with anybody just to satisfy your craving..
Wait for some time .. ur still young...
If u still cant control your craving, play with your self (masturbate), this will help you stisfy your craving to some extent
2007-03-21 02:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋