Do you think that I should not wait til marriage or love to have sex anymore. I mean like im 18 now, do you think I will not ever have fun if I dont have sex and play around a lil??? people have been telling me about things I would love to do but I dont wanna regret my 1st my whole life but I wanna have fun..what do you think?
2007-03-19 20:04:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the first time is really precious .. :) specially for us girls
i advice you to wait :) i get it from how you are so concerned about sex that you just dont take it as an ordinary-everyday-thing. make it special. sex has more meaning when you do it with someone you love.
2007-03-19 20:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by zara19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very normal to want to have sex- especially if you haven't yet. I couldn't tell from your question exactly what you are saying. My advice to everyone on here and in my personal life is to wait until you are married. Then when you have sex with your husband it will be the most amazing experience of your life! it is supposed to be saved for marriage!
2007-03-20 03:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See its your life so you need to decide. If your heart says you should wait till marriage(or love) please do wait and don't have sex just because everyone has had it.
There's nothing wrong with sex before marriage but you need to be very careful choosing the guy. A guy who always keeps asking for sex or forces you to have it does not deserve it... Don't(and I mean it Don't) allow him such an honor.
It should be natural and not planned(he should not have persuaded, forced or harangued you into having sex). But please make sure you make him use a condom(and yourself use contraceptives) if you don't want to bear the side effects...
2007-03-20 03:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by somesh_mukherjee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its up to you really...are you emotionally mature enough to handle sex? Don't just rush into it...
2007-03-20 03:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by No joke 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my cousin was saving for marriage....she played around and didnt have intercourse....some guy forced himself on her eventually when she wasnt ready for it. be careful what you do. peace
2007-03-20 03:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just have fun when you get older and if you do regret it say that you were young and stupid.
your not getting any younger
2007-03-20 03:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋