I am 17 years old ill be 18 soon, im in love with a girl who is 23.
ive known her for about 2 years, i liked her very much, and she knew that i liked her, i called her about 20 times a day, and we talked about lots of things, i knew i was gonna fall in love with her, and i did, . Now what shall i do? Shall i tell her? How? im afraid.... i dont know what to do
2007-03-19 20:01:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how you feel. age really doesn't matter.
2007-03-19 20:07:28 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa lol 20 calls a day... you're the only person i heard in my life who calls that much a day. anyway, if you love her a lot tell her. But 18 and 23 is a pretty big age difference because of the maturity level difference. However, if the girl was 18 and you were 23 then it's fine. Women are mature by age 23. And you, who will be 18, still want to have fun and may not keep up with her muturity.
Well if you feel like you and this girl have something going on with the both of you, then go ahead and ask her out.
2007-03-20 03:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep your 'relationship' with the girl casual until you're 18-she may have legal problems; after that, if she is available, tell how you feel about her and ask her the same question. Once you know where you stand with her (single, has feelings for you) there's nothing wrong with an age difference relationship if two persons deeply care, help, understand each other. The sex part must be especially discussed as to define boundaries-you both don't want complications in this situation for the relation to fail.
2007-03-20 03:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by roses2500 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is proof that you are too young for even a 23 year old--nothing in common, 20 phone calls a day, no self asurance, no self confidence-----show a few more years of maturity and then maybe she will date you. Act like a man and get a job and stop the little boy antics.
2007-03-20 03:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Mom is 72 and her current boyfriend, also my best friend, is 55 - they've been dating 4 years - she was previously married to another friend of mine for 15 years - age difference of 23 years! Age difference really shows in some areas - like music preferences, but rarely is it really a problem. Go for it - all she can do is say no - you'll never know till you ask!
2007-03-20 03:11:03 · answer #5 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no age difference for love,if you are in love really, you don't have to afraid, express your love.i am with you, i think she is also in love with you. when you come to know the exact meaning of love your are not going to afraid of anyone,but think,, if the girl yes to ur love what will be your next step (think about it),if she says no ,,dont worry ,, if ur love is true you will get it ,,nothing is impossible in this world. keep trying.
first try to say indirectly that u r in love with someone, see her reaction,if it is okay then go ahead, if you feel its not okay.then await for some time , i can guide you don worry
2007-03-20 03:24:34 · answer #6 · answered by satya k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her. Age means nothing look at all the superstars lol. Look at Hugh Heffner. C'mon. Just tell her.
2007-03-20 03:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Eclipse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does not see age!
2007-03-20 03:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first find out whether or not she is single. Then think, if she says yes, how will my life be different, and if she says no, then how will my life be the same?
2007-03-20 03:07:03 · answer #9 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has no boundaries, as long as it is within the walls of the law.
2007-03-20 03:04:34 · answer #10 · answered by EternalBlueMemory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no question of age in love. go and ask him that u love him. if she ready then enjoy the life otherwise change ur track.
2007-03-20 03:07:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋