Does it hurts to know that ur frnd talks to u or text u only when she is bored, when she has nothing to do, when she needs a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen to her?
My frnd has been doing this to me. I feel used by her. So a few days b4 I had stopped talking to her and texting her the way I used to do before. I dont text her any more and talks to her only when she calls me.
I thought doing this would make her understand that how it feels when some1 ignore or avoids u.
She have realised it that I am not giving her the attention like b4 but she has not asked me that am I in any prob or Y I am doing like this!
I dont want 2 talk 2 her how I feel used by her bcoz some how the thought of talking to her makes me degraded.
We have been v good frnds but she got busy in he college and family life.
To 4get her I made frnds but no 1 has bcom as close as she was with me.
I miss her v badly and more than that it hurts to know that she dsnt hv time for me and she dsnt understand me.
2007-03-19 19:55:16 · 8 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends are suppose to talk to each when their bored that's what friends are for. You should talk to her about your feelings because she's your friend and you are hurt by her actions.
2007-03-19 20:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In other words...we can perhaps say she is selfish.i totally understand your problem.But its almost impossible to get back what u had..people grow up..people change and they go different paths.We can only keep the beautiful memories and end it before it gets too bitter.U have to be the nice person here..which im sure u already her.Dont feel used..if she needs a shoulder to cry on..be there.it wont harm u.it just makes u a better person.Be strong and dont depend on her because u know she wont be there for u.good luck:)
2007-03-19 20:02:49 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it was never an even friendship, but rather you were support for her all along. She has got used to this & probably does not understand why you were acting differently. You have to decide whether you want to continue being her support as you did in the past, as the nature of the friendship is probably not going to change.
2007-03-19 20:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way she will know something is wrong is if you tell her. If she doesn't understand then she isn't worth having as a freind get yourself out and make some new freinds you can never have too many!
2007-03-19 21:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by DEBORAH A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to move on and find some proper friends I think. Friendships will change throughout your life. Don't stick to just one person make a nice group of friends so you have more than one person to turn to.
2007-03-19 20:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld just start calling/texting her lyk normal. If she replies or watever its a gd sign if she doesn't than don't think it's the end of the world. she obviously doesn't care enuf about u so let it go, ur worth much more than that. making new frends was a gd start! keep going!
2007-03-19 20:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by jo4idol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit down and talk to her explain your side of the story and try to be open minded
2007-03-19 20:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to explain to her how you feel , it is the only way,good luck.
2007-03-19 20:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋