Me and the guy I like used to be best friends until my dad kicked him out of the house...he used to practically live with us because he would come over almost everyday and stay for about 5-7 hours and my dad didnt mind and then one day my dad "saw" him openning drawers in my dad's room (I still dont think thats the real reason). And I only see him in school, at the park (he lives by the park), and when he goes by my house to go to a friend's house. Occasionally he might stop at my house when my dad doesn't know and stay for a lil bit. It's hard to get to know him when I barely see him outside of school!! Please help me!!!
2007-03-19 19:28:02 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk to your mum and get her on side. Or talk to your dad and explain you want to hang out with him and that he should trust your judgement and if he doesn't allow him in your house you'll just go over there and then he won't be able to watch over you. Or just lie completely and see him where ever you can.
2007-03-19 19:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by K8tgry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for once in your stupid little girls mind listen to your dad because i would be I would see him down the line in the type building I work in - a police station- quit chasing the bad guys and your dad is protecting you and his wallet not only from thievery but thats a guy that would knock your dumbazz up and and leave you high and dry with your day footing the bill and an extra mouth to feed not to mention it would be hard to find a man who wants leftovers in your age range ( and you wont look at the 40-55 age range that would take leftovers and raise another mans kid) t so you would be mooching off your dad untill you were 35 to 40 when you could find someone , can you see how your dad is really trying to save the whole family? LISTEN TO OUR DAD -- HE IS CORRECT
obey your parents at least until you move out own your own and are supporting yourself.
2007-03-20 02:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dad has these feeling for him for a reason. He has done something to make him loose any respect that he might of had for him. Remember your dad loves you and he will just want the best for you. Maybe it is time that you look in other direction also. If it was meant to be for you and this guy it will happen anyway. As they say it is more than one fish in the sea..
2007-03-20 02:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by edj009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have a nice talk with your Dad personally, and ask him what can be the problem. DOn't be afraid if you really want to see that guy as before. If he tells you honestly because of a specific reason then, let him know that you want to see your friend again.
Also, talk to your friend and if its his fault then ask him to say sorry. Friendships should be mended before it totally breaks.
2007-03-20 02:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by JD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's your Dad's house and he makes the rules. If something turns up missing you could get into trouble.
2007-03-20 02:31:57 · answer #5 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why?would he be going through your father's personal thing's,get him to explain to you and your father,this is a matter of trust,he seemed already to except your boyfriend until this happened.
2007-03-20 02:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by parkituse j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about your mom?
2007-03-20 02:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Aaron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋