so im going to have coffee with a girl, but i recently found out she likes to club a lot, so im kinda scared that she may be too wild and may have slept around a lot and may be hard to handle, should i go for it?
2007-03-19 19:15:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be friends with her first and see where it goes. Don't concern yourself about her club habits, you are not marrying her anyway. Just enjor her company if she likes you and you like her. If she begins to like you a lot, she will change her club habit anyway; on her own. You will not be able to change the fact that she likes going a lot as of now. She may club a lot because she does not have a boyfriend. Don't worry about what is 'down the line', just take one day at a time. If you want to ask her about clubbing, ask her without being judgemental.Good luck.
2007-03-19 19:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should don't let the fact that she likes to club blind you from what a great person she is or could be. i use to be a hardcore clubber when i met my fiance, i would go out wed. thru sun. and stay out all hours of the night but i didn't sleep around i went to the clubs cause i love to dance, so don't let the fact that she clubs get in between you and her give her a chance you'll never know what might happen!!!
2007-03-20 02:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by cindy c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do have confidence in yourself. That's all a girl needs to see. Once she sees that your not a wuss, she'll be open to you. Remember girls that sleep around alot also need someone to be more into the sex rather than wam, bam thank you ma'am type guys. She may come back for round 2. But you don't know if she does, so don't assume. It never hurts to try. "It's better to try and be rejected than not try and regret it." Go with your instincts. YOU CAN DO IT!!!
2007-03-20 02:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Steve A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have coffee with her! You can find out more about her when you guys have coffee. Dont assume about who she is just because she likes to go to clubs a lot.
2007-03-20 02:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I'm rescinding your "guy" card...take her out for coffee, LISTEN to her and see if she's too much for you. Unless she's dropping E, I'd even say go out to a club with her to dance if that's what she likes. You may like it.
I regret the things that I NEVER did more than anything I EVER did (I just made that up...I'm like Muhammed Ali!)...
Good luck, chief.
2007-03-20 02:21:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes , you dont even know her, go out fro coffee and judge on that. if you really want to find out if shes wild then take her to a club and see. But dont judge on what you've heard. it's like fi you liked rifle shooting and soem girl wouldn't go out with you because she thought you might be too dangerous. Imagine how sad you would be.
2007-03-20 02:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by Out of Reach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont let nothing stop you from getting with someone you like. even if she has slept with a lot of people maybe you could be the one to tie her down. just get both of you checked before you do anything without protection. at least she will be experienced.
2007-03-20 02:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by hottie hot hot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just because she likes to dance doesn't make her a bad girl just relax a little because If you are looking for a lady who dose not like to enjoy her self you are going to have no fun you know don't worry about what she does it is what she doesn't do that would be more annoying
2007-03-20 02:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by jeff i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hrrrm, don't assume stuff. It's not nice to prejudge before you get to know a person.
Go have coffee with her and get the true idea of who she is.
It's just coffee, it's not like you're gonna ask her to marry you right then and there.
2007-03-20 02:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude - you're just having coffee.
i think she prob. likes you more than people she goes clubbing with. she wants to see you in the daytime.
you don't know shes a slut.
if she seems like too much to handle, dont ask her out again. if you like her, give her a chance.
2007-03-20 02:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋