Ladies are you flattered or offended?

Question

How do you react when a guy you are not really attracted to makes a move? As long as the dude is polite is it okay with you?

What is the single most attractive physical things you find in a guy

What is the single most mental aspect you find in a guy

And if you had to choose between the two favorite attributes, which would you choose and why?

Answer 1

Probably depends on how ugly the guy is.

Answer 2

I question what you mean by "move." If it is merely an attempt
at conversation and it IS polite (emphasize polite) most women will, or should be kind. I think most women have a secret "out" if they feel uncomfortable, but it need not be rude.
But I am still having a problem with the word "move." If it is in fact a "move" and they are not attracted to you? I have seen some not so nice women do some not so nice things!. The weird thing about that one?? You can sit and watch the same guy go around and try the same disgusting "move" on another woman and get the same reaction!! And yet to all those amazed...yep!!!!!! He does it again! Go figure.
Before you know it "DUDE" you got yourself one hell of a rep with the women! We are a tight group, and we do take care of our sisters!

I think your other questions have been answered here over and over. You still won't get past "go" till you figure out that "move" thing. If you are sweet and sincere, honest and gentle - women don't bite. If you are making a "MOVE" Buyer beware!!! Don't say I didn't warn you!
Good Luck!

Answer 3

I give most guys a chance. If he flirts with me and I haven't had any feelings for him, I don't just dismiss him. I like to get to know them a little better just in case there might be something there I overlooked.

The most sttractive physical features I am drawn to in a guy are his eyes and his mouth. I love interesting teeth and slightly full lips with a big smile that lights up a room.

The most important mental aspect, is a guy that has a sense of humour and says and does romantic things. Such as whispering in my ear and holding and touching me softly.
Mentally he would not have an over the top temper.

He should be well liked by guys as well as girls.

If I had to choose, I would choose the social butterfly I mentioned in the mental part. A guy that everyone likes.

Answer 4

I'm married, so its awkward for me if someone hits on me. It has happened a few times. Once a guy told me I was gorgeous and would I care to dance? He was really sweet, but obviously I'm married....I said, "Thank you. I'm really flattered, but I'm married." He said, "Oh, I'm sorry, I meant no disrespect. Should I go apologize to your husband?" Anyhow, he was polite. On the other hand, I had a guy escorted out of a club because he got pissed that I wouldn't dance with him. I told him No thank you, Im married, but he called me a ******. The physical that attracts me is the smile. (Its what I first noticed about my husband!) The mental aspect is if they are well spoken, and intelligent. If I had to choose between the two, I'd say the intelligence. If his smile isn't that great, he can always go to the dentist, but if he's an idiot, its just not going to happen at all.

Answer 5

If I get hit on I say politely sorry I'm married I smile. I don't get offended. Most attractive physical atribute is a guys size, I like a large man. Mental ttribute is intelligence/ humor. Between the two humor is #1 because if he can keep a good sense of humor he can be there for anything and always make me happy.

Answer 6

I'm flattered if a guy is polite when they make a move or whatever. It's nice to know people think you're good looking or a nice person.

Most attractive thing...possibly arms...like not really muscley...but more the forearms and hands being all rugged and manly...not pampered.

Mental aspect is sense of humour.

And if i had to choose i would choose sense of humour, easy. Because you are guaranteed to have a better time with the guy...much more fun.

Answer 7

It doesn't bother me too much unless he is not being polite, and he won't give up after I've said no. I definitely prefer someone I find attractive to hit on me though, hee hee!

The most attractive would be someone who is handsome and takes care of their body (is fit, good hygiene, smells good).

For the mental part, they have to be smart and polite.

I would go for a nice and polite guy that maybe isn't as attractive as I would like, but i would still have to feel an attraction to him in some way.

Answer 8

I think it takes bravery for anyone to "make a move" towards anyone. So, I am flattered. Caveat--polite and not some lame pick-up line.

A mans hands are very sexy.

Intelligent humor.

Intelligent humor. Because physical beauty goes away and if a relationship is based on the physical eventually it is lost.

Answer 9

as long as he is polite and creative in his approach i may not date him but i won't diss him..it's always flattering to know a guy is into you.

physically i am in love with eyes
mentally it's harder to choose but a sense of humor to me is always an attractive trait, someone who is articulate is also sexy

if I had to choose I'd take the sense of humor over his eyes any day...because laughter is life's medicine and i need a man who can laugh and make me laugh

Answer 10

If a guy makes a move to me, in a polite way.I am flattered,pleasing personality and gentleman is my preference. It is easy to interact with that kind of a person.

Answer 11

when im not attracted to a guy and he is obviously hitting on me, i get a little irritated.

i think its a lot better when the guy takes his time. and doesnt just go for it.

another important thing is that he gives attention to my friends too. i hate it when a guy is interested in me and only pays attention to me and brushes my friensd aside.. it makes it seem like all he wants is a$$.

i like when the guy introduces me to his friends, and tries to get to know me and show me a little bit about himself in the mean time.

most importantly they need to know how to read people. if a girl doesnt lean in to hear more and shows a lack of interest the guy shouldnt follow you around all night. i like when they come back and forth and sort of show that they have interest but that they are independant.