In Indian culture, is it ok for the son to be better than the father? Will the father block the son from becoming better than him? Will the father constantly keep asking for respect and subservience? Will the father try to diminish his son's future if it does not fit in with his wants and needs? Why would some fathers (or mothers) try to hurt their children's present and futures?
2007-03-19 19:13:18 · 10 answers · asked by f g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know that most parents are good or at least appear to be good - I am asking under what circumstances would they be not so good - there's no major war or calamity or economic collapose or disease etc going on currently. So, no special reason for being a bad father.
2007-03-19 19:34:51 · update #1
This Kumar sounds like a beemar guy.
Yes, definitely the father can be a rogue. He have heap the injustices from his own parents or in-laws onto his own children. He can heap the stress of his workplace onto his kids. He can pile on the grievances of the outside society onto his family. The mother can be selfish or self centered or lazy or a show-off or fun-loving, etc. Very few angels tread the earth according to me.
2007-03-19 19:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by sam 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Which father wants he son to be worst off. All fathers and mothers will always prays that the sons is better off and leads a better life.
It seems that you are watching too much TV of films, where they show the Indian culture of yesteryear's.
Good Luck
2007-03-20 02:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your question yourself. No parent would prevent his/her children from surpassing him/her in every aspect of life. In very extraordinary circumstances some fathers/mothers might try to thwart their step children in order to give special facilities to their own children. Demanding respect and subserving are two different things, not to be confused with each other.
2007-03-20 11:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
father or mother hurt their children coz of orthodox in nature, u will find this problems occur in orthodox people mostly. do u know what they thinking? they loves their children but they always thinking that our children should do this, should not do this, and putting some restrictions and think that this is necessary and always interfier in all matter of children, if u r suffreing this situation, so first understand their nature and then u be careful and try to go ahead.
2007-03-20 02:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by mak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son,bcz according to darwin's theory "Survival of the fittest" he is always accomodating himself to newer adverse conditions & changes..
So Son is better than his father.
2007-03-20 02:20:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its quite silly thinking.
i m sure that the son thinks this way and he continues the same thinking when he also has a son.
so grow up and think better.
2007-03-20 02:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all parents want to give the best to the children. moreover they want them nicely placed...it is one of the greatest desires.
u'r question is pointless...why would indian parents be any different?
2007-03-20 02:26:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why not?as per my knowledge every father wants his son to flourish more than him.... so why indian fathers will be different?
2007-03-20 02:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by aaryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. silly question
2007-03-20 08:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are human ...it happens ALOT...
2007-03-20 11:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋