What do you do when your upstairs neighbors are always making sexy breathing and panting and screaming sounds when they are getting it on? the woman just about yells to the top of her lungs when he hits the spot and he beats the wall or something and just yells out her name over and over when his turn comes around! they are soooooooooooooo loud that I'm afraid to have company over anymore, HELLLP PLEASE! do i say something to them or just continue to blast music to cover it up like i've been doing?
2007-03-19 19:05:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should get your groove on one night and be even louder. As a matter of fact you should do it right out side their door with your head banging their door. I think they will get the message this way. lol If that doesn't work well maybe you should purchase a gag ball just for her and leave her an note kindly saying, "this might help you control all that yelling."
2007-03-19 19:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by Steve A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may not realised that they are loud. The only thing is to inform them discreetly by slipping a note or see the gentleman ( if you a man) or the lady (if you a woman) and explain the problem. If you have young children, inform them.
But just for your information, many people are turn on by such sound.
Good Luck
2007-03-19 19:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do is record them , get the microphone as close to the action as you can ...then you wait...........until the one night they have family or other company over to their place , then I would play the recording on a very loud stereo and I would crank that mutha fkr up as loud as it will go , and with my windows open ........it worked for a friend of mine who had the same problem .. his neighbors thought it was fun to bump uglies and be noisy , until it was played back for them
2007-03-19 19:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by Insensitively Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to say something to them - tell them it sounds ridiculous and make fools of them so they may have some respect for themselves and their neighbours - that is just not natural - im sorry - sounds like they are exaggerating it to impress ea other - far immature - good luck - as a last resort I would get the police involved -imagine how embarrassed they will be !!! All the best
2007-03-19 19:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make a joke out of it, Why should you be embarrassed because your neighbors screw like really loud Bunny's, If you have guest over and they start at it just say ( oh my god you are not going to believe this) and you can give them a play by play. And maybe one of your friends will have some good advice
2007-03-19 19:13:44 · answer #5 · answered by mystictoad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip a note or a card under their door to let them know not everyone enjoys hearing them. Maybe make a tape of them so they can hear what they sound like, They MAY not realize how much noise they make.
2007-03-19 19:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by Big Bruce 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand you will possibly prefer to truly love and look after this woman, yet i think of which you ought to take extra perfect care of your self. We al make errors and in specific circumstances those errors come at a cost. i won't be able to enable you realize if she would be able to take you decrease back or no longer, that's her call. Your call is to take your concentration far off from hurting your self, i'm specific that makes it extra sturdy for her to make up her concepts. while you're falling aside and crying and desirous to harm your self, i think of that ought to make all of us experience uncomfortable, fantastically in case you broke her have faith. truthfully, you do ought to enable her go.. you could ought to artwork out why you broke her have faith in the 1st place. i'm in effortless terms assuming which you cheated on her, for the reason that's how i'm analyzing what you have written. i think of perhaps finding deep interior your self and asking why you probably did it. in specific circumstances we concern the flaws/people we what the main. Committment, love etc. i think of in case you relatively start to artwork on why and straightforward a thank you to offer up it happening lower back. Crying so difficult you have a seizure isn't healthy and suicide is basically undeniable incorrect. those issues take time, so i might additionally advise which you coaching soem rest techniches, like meditation or take in a sort of exercising to sell your physique to function lower back. perhaps get some counselling besides. Alot of persons do unlike counsellors, yet they're an intruder finding in and supply super advise and may additionally help in rest innovations. those issues take time... sturdy success.. Edit: nicely, I applaud your honesty. I undertsnad you got caught out, and there is not any longer something which may be achieved to undo it.. As a woman, some people have a area with honesty. supply her time, yet be sort to your self. you won't be able to alter the previous, yet you could take it as a lesson. Take some time and attempt distract your self and make this incident no longer the main substantial concentration of your existence..
2016-10-02 10:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest I'd be _tempted_ to yell out to your neighbor's something along the lines of..."You didn't shout out his name this afternoon!" ...right after they quiet down.
Seriously, however, that wouldn't be the best way to handle it by far.
While dealing with excessive noise on occasion occurs for most people living in apartments, something that occurs as regularly as this would seem too is inconsiderate of them.
In reality I'd be inclined to handle it one of several ways...depends on how many neighbors you have and how comfortable you feel regarding them…here are a couple of ideas to choose from that might help you out.
1) Place an anonymous note on their door informing them..
As a concerned neighbor, while I would like to respect your “right to privacy” during your intimate moments, the amount of noise makes it impossible to do so.
2) Discuss the situation with your landlord/lady and ask him/her to approach them about it. This works even better if it occurs after “quiet hours” which are often stipulated in lease agreements.
3) Call the police yourself or have the landlord/lady and place an anonymous “Disturbing the Peace” noise complaint. This works even better if it occurs after “quiet hours” which are often stipulated in lease agreements. (Generally, you won’t be anonymous to the police themselves thanks to the miracles of modern technology…but if you request to remain anonymous in your complaint, they won’t disclose who you are to your neighbors...just stay out of things when the police arrive.)
2007-03-19 19:54:13 · answer #8 · answered by ATS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blast the music louder than their orgasmic screams.
2007-03-19 19:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u just knock on the door and ask them to be a bit more respectful of their neighbours
2007-03-19 19:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋