If your in love with two guys and they love you back wut do you do?
2007-03-19 18:18:07 · 16 answers · asked by KATT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you need to ask, then it means you don't love any one of them; you like them but you don't love them.
When you find real love, you see the difference, you don't need to ask what to do or which one to chose. Forget about those guys. And don't even think about being with both of them at the same time, that's a recipe for a bloody headline on the 6PM news.
2007-03-19 18:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is NOT what do you do? The REAL question is WHO DO YOU TRULY LOVE? Being in love is not like a faucet you can turn on and off. It's not like watering the lawn - and you put some love here, put some love over there...
If 2 guys love you - which one is the one you think about just before you fall asleep? Which one is the first one on your mind when you wake up in the morning? Which one pops into your dreams at night? (Hopefully, it's the same answer for each question) -- then that is your answer!
If you honestly think you love them both, then you must be honest and tell them about each other. Don't play anyone on that, because that will (most likely) come back to bite you eventually.
Best of luck!
2007-03-20 01:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Just Gotta Know... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it's up to you. If you choose one the other will obviously be left out and hurt and the same works the other way. I would suggest just being friends with them both and seeing if you find a deeper attraction to one or the other but I dont know how well that would work if you dont want to wait so long to solve the issue or move forward... i'm sorry but i dont think i'm of much use on this :(
2007-03-20 01:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Brad C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would step back from both relationships if I were you, and see which one you miss more. If you do nothing, you risk losing both of them. Do they know you are in love with both of them, because that could be a very good sign of nothing good to come. I would hurry up and make some sort of a decision in the near future.
2007-03-20 01:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by dnsnowden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Katt, look inside yourself and ask your true self that question. Project...look forward and ask which one will stand the test of time? If you were to live with A, how will he wear? How about B? Who would make the best partner for whatever you really want to do? Are you thinking marriage or just current romance? If marriage, then focus and you will find the answer. If just current romance, don't worry about it, it will sort itself out. Meanwhile, enjoy.
2007-03-20 01:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aren't in love with both of them. You are attracted to both of them. Try and step back from the situation. The longer you're around them the better you will know them so you can make the right choice.
2007-03-20 01:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mark in Boulder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at your future and see which you can imagine being with... make a pro and con list.. write down everything good and bad of both and weigh it out... usually one guy will seem really good right now, but in the long run the other one will be better to you..
2007-03-20 01:33:06 · answer #7 · answered by *a reason to live* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one is best for you? The answer is not always clear, but you will decide. You can't have both, I've learned that lesson. In my case I picked the one who wasn't a p*ssy.
2007-03-20 01:23:44 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a pros/cons list for each guy...think it through as much as you can...if this doesn't work, just go with your gut. either way, you need to pick one so this doesn't get any messier than it already is.
2007-03-20 01:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose one, cuz if they find out you'll end up alone. It's that simple, make up your mind and go with it. don't agonize over it forever.
2007-03-20 01:21:56 · answer #10 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋