so i am meeting this guy tonight around 2ish and i need some help. Im meeting him and his son and we have never met before. Were meeting at a public place just to be safe. What do i wear? What do i say? How do i keep him interested? PLEASE HELP ASAP!!!
2007-03-19 18:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by confuzzeled88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dress casual, a nice pair of jeans and a sweater or a nice dress shirt.. dont go over board, wear just a lil bit of makeup, dont over do that either, guys really dont like to see girls all gooped up, they want to see natural beauty... when you meet him, either shake his hand or if you feel comfortable give him a hug.. introduce yourself and say its nice to meet you... keep him interested by not talking about yourself nonstop, talk about differnent things, and take interest in his son also.. if you decide that you like each other and want to pursue a realationship he will be looking at how well you get along with his son also.. dont try to be a motherly or sisterly type.. be his friend, and show your trust.. talk about the things u think he would like to talk about for his age group.. ive seen kids these days that their parents are in relationships where they dont like or cant trust their bf's or gf's.. and they cant get along with them.. i got lucky, my husband gets along so perfect with my kids, you would think they were his own.. good luck and keep us posted..
2007-03-19 18:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2ish is rather late. But maybe that was a typo or something. I would go casual. Jeans and top. I assume you have spoken to him before. Just try to relax and talk about whatever you are interested in and make sure you ask alot of questions about him and his son. Good luck.
2007-03-19 18:21:51 · answer #2 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, Are you going out with this guy?
If so, don't wear anything too revealing, because his kid will be there.
Wear something comfortable and kid-friendly.
Say what ever is on your mind. A good idea is to go to a park, so while his son is playing, you can talk to him. But do not lose interest in his kid either, because it will likely show him that you don't care about kids.
Keep him interested by interacting with both of them, do not neglect anybody, them maybe later ask him whether you can have dinner with him or to do something just between you and him...
2007-03-19 18:24:35 · answer #3 · answered by Eko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of person or character do you have. Are you a jeans person? If so I would wear a nice shirt and jacket and a pair of nice jeans and boots with a small heel or shoe.
I do not know what colors look good with your skin tone so I will not be able to tell you the color scheme that will work for you.
I nice shirt and a nice skirt and jacket. Black is always fashionable and it make you look smaller if you need to take off a few pounds.
Just be yourself and have your hair and make up together and every thing else will take care of itself! Good luck.
2007-03-19 18:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be yourself, wear what you would usually wear when going out, act like you always do, do not try to re-invent yourself to try go gain a relationship. When the right person comes around you'll know, the communication will be there, chemistry all around will click and you will feel no preassure or worries. Good luck.
2007-03-19 18:26:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing complicated. Just be yourself. Wear something casual like in a blouse and jeans. Make yourself comfortable and stay positively cool.And don't worry. Let the conversation be a natural thing.
2007-03-19 18:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not wear to revealing clothes. Be yourself. Relax because all that energy worrying about what they think. What about what you think. If he wants you to meet his son that is saying something too: He is going to ask his son for approval after the date.
2007-03-19 18:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself; if he's not interested, then it wasn't meant to be! As this is only your first meeting, make sure you stay in that public place. You never know...be very cautious to trust him.
Have fun!!!! Good luck!
2007-03-19 18:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, dress as you normally dress when you go out . Dont stress over the small stuff good luck
2007-03-19 18:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dress casual but enough so he can remember what you wore the first time.relax it is at a public place.more importantly watch how he interacts with his kid,that will tell you if there is room for you in their lives.
2007-03-19 18:22:41 · answer #10 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋