I'm in love with my boyfriend...well, at least i think i am. But i think his bestfriend MIGHT have an attraction to me..and i MIGHT like him back... See, my boyfriend's bestfriend is one of my close friends too, i've known him for 2 years, so we're pretty close. I have 3 classes with him, in one of them i dont talk to him usually because he sits far away, another one he sits across the room so if he looks up and i look up we're looking at each other, and the last class he's right beside me and we talk the whole class. when he talks to me he's always really close and looking right into my eyes. he's always walking with me everywhere, and he always goes out of his way to talk to me. He tells me he loves me all the time, but he says its just a joke..i dont know... And sometimes, when he talks to me, i get this feeling or urge or whatever that i should just kiss him..and my boyfriend and i haven't kissed yet and we've been dating for almost 4 months. Please help me!! Am i a bad girlfriend?
2007-03-19 18:16:41 · 5 answers · asked by female optimus prime. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think your friend likes you...a lot. talk to your boyfriend about it, or better yet, talk to your friend. he knows you have a boyfriend, and he should know that you're pretty much 'hands-off' right now, but guys like to play. talk to them. thats the best thing you could do, in the end, he could just be playing around. you never know with guys. good luck with this =)
2007-03-19 18:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not bad, you are just learning!
At first, it's not easy figuring out the right thing to do in these situations, because you are emotionally involved. But it is time for you to start developing your own standards. It is much easier to know what you think if you imagine some other girl in your situation.
First of all, don't worry about classifying love and like. It's too soon and it's totally unnecessary.
Secondly, I am wondering where your boyfriend is all the time, since his friend is with you so much.
Speaking of which, what kind of friend is he? Are you sure you approve of a guy moving in on his best friend's girl?
Lastly, I think you need to try to not base your actions as a response to someone else's. You need to think about what YOU want.
Once you decide what is right, it'll be easy. If you truly prefer your boyfriend, then you tell the other guy to back off while you are "with" your boyfriend. If you truly prefer the other guy, I hope you decide to keep your distance until you have broken up with your boyfriend and let a little time pass. I think that's what you would want if you were in his shoes.
Best of luck, and listen to your own head and heart.
2007-03-20 01:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not a "bad" girlfriend.
You sound quite young - and love at any age can be confusing. You need to think about what you want in a partner and who can give you that?
It is normal to be attracted to people other than you're partner also - its called human nature.
From what you have said, it sounds as though your boyfriends friend likes you - maybe you should talk to him ?
2007-03-20 01:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Not_a_toothless_pirate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in love others are not on your mind so love you are not simply put do the guy if it works out great if not no loss
2007-03-20 01:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...you just are not in love with your boyfriend....
2007-03-20 01:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Olive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋