ok!! there is this guy that I messed with for a while then it kinda started back up but now hes sayin he jus wanted to be friends cuz I never wanted to come over to have sex. and he has a girfriend. me and her were okay at first but over spring break we became really cool and started hanging out, am i wrong for this even though me and him arent messin around anymore. and now i dont think he doesnt like me hanging out with her,
my question is am i wrong for being good friends with her or is it okay since im not messin around with him anymore?
2007-03-19 17:56:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with it at all. What you and her boyfriend USED to do should not change whether or not you can be friends. If anything it's to be admired how you stood up when he kept on requesting sex from you. She's got little reason to dislike you and unless she's the really touchy type who hate the idea of being friends with her boyfrined's ex, you're all good :)
2007-03-19 18:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Brad C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is OK. As long as you realize that you now have a responsibility to her. Dont go behind her back and try to pick up her man. That would make you a skanky friend.
2007-03-20 01:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not okay. When she finds out, oh and she will eventually find out, it will get ugly. He doesn't like cuz he thinks your gonna let the secrets fly to get back at him.
2007-03-20 01:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust triagle mmmmmm are you doing her too ?? if so interesting if not then it is ok 4 u to hang out with her so long as you repect boundries oky doky
2007-03-20 01:02:01 · answer #4 · answered by freeby1011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with Douglas.
You are making it a triangle, they are the couple.
2007-03-20 01:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you plan on an three way move on!
2007-03-20 01:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine, just dont let her find out about it.
2007-03-20 01:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by sahariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋