It's been 14 years since I spoke to him...I'm 24 now...I found him because I didn't know what happened after he moved, and I had always wondered how he was doing. Problem is, he is more than fine. He's totally brilliant, tall, blonde, blue eyed, and has the same sweet, kind heart that makes everything about him even better. I can't help it, he is exactly what I want- he set the bar really high all those years ago. He was my first love, and I was his. He certainly didn't forget me...I have fallen harder than I thought possible, and I have no idea if he feels the same. How do I go about finding out without making a total mess of things? I don't want to lose him ever again. He is single. I am the type to let things take their course, but this is torture!
2007-03-19 17:27:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the anticipation can make one go crazy, But you have to remember that Love is Patient. He might feel the same way but give this time it has been 14years feel him out a little more because people do change over the course of time, and if he is even more kind that's great but get to know him a little bit more, I say go for it!!, good thing is that he is available so that might be a great sign, I mean some people leave our lives and find their way back in, making the relationship even more special and stronger than ever!
2007-03-19 17:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you have a lot of years that have passed by---you have plenty of opportunities to meet over coffee and talk about where and what the BOTH of you have been doing. You should be able to get some idea by having a normal fun conversation or two. He may or may not react the way you hope he does---so be ready for that possibility..... I would think that it would be just plain fun to catch up on all the time gone by. Just relax---show him how nice of a young lady you turned out to be--let him see the real you. Does he have a steady girl??You two aren't doing the puppy love thing--you are too old and mature for that--so don't expect puppy love again---hopefully it will be a nice slowly developing relationship for the both of you--you know, all grown up and acting like adults. Have fun and smile---good luck
2007-03-20 00:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be around him, ask him to lunch, you know "to get caught up" wink, wink...You'll be able to see if he is interested and maybe something can come of this...My fingers and toes are crossed for you...I would cross my eyes but i cant see to type...Have a blast....Good Luck
2007-03-20 00:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell him. You were only 10. I mean come on.
2007-03-20 00:35:59 · answer #4 · answered by what the?? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋