We are both in high school, 16 years old, and he has been my best friend for 2 years. He likes to flirt with me, calls me beautiful and devotes 95% of his time during the school time to me!
However when we get online its a whole different thing, he prefers to talk to our mutual female friend,,, and it takes him a long time to answer me! WHICH makes me quite mad!
Does this mean he does not like me as more than a friend?
Should I get mad at him for his online behavior and ignorance towards me?
Thank you! <3
2007-03-19 17:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by Halomot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he know that you want him to be more than a friend?
Have you shown him that you are interested in him, or is he putting forth all the effort?
If you don't let him know, then you have no right to him at all.
You are going to lose him forever if you don't do something soon. It seems that he is beginning to explore his options of being with another woman. If he has been following you around for two years and you are still letting him just hang on a string, he is about to cut that string and go after another woman. Because from what you said, it is VERY obvious that this guy is hot for you. It is also obvious that you just keep him hanging around, hoping that someday you will tell him that you want him, too.
If you want to keep him, you'd better open your mouth and say something fast. You have already been given two years, but now you are going to lose him.
2007-03-19 17:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you like the kid? you shouldn't be getting mad at his online behaviour -- you guys' aren't even together as a couple. I'm not trying to sound harsh, but it's true. You shouldn't say he's ignorant to you, I mean, people do get caught up in IM's. And you said so yourself, he spends so much time with you at school.
If you like him. Tell him. How else is he supposed to know? He's probably clueless too, and waiting for a sign. I bet he would probably like you. And JUST in case he doesn't, he wouldn't want to hurt you intentionally with rejection, ya know? I mean, you guys are best friends, and he cares for you. But I'd go that he does like you, at least some what. Don't get mad at him for having other relationships with girls besides yours -- you guys aren't together.
So if you don't want this happening, tell him you like him, which I presume you do. You guys spend so much time with each other at school, tell him then, casually.
2007-03-20 00:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is supposed to be your best friend...so dont get mad at him....if you like him as more then a friend then tell him that you like him....you will never know how he feels about you if you dont put yourself out there....worse case scenario he doesnt feel the same about you and you can move on....good luck
2007-03-20 00:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people aren't always themselves when they're online. personally, i think the way a person acts when they're physically around you is more important, becuase during that time, they have no time to think or plan things out. they'll act naturally and this shows who they really are :]
2007-03-20 00:28:50 · answer #4 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, if he's acting like that when he's around you, he wants you. If he's talking to other girls online, it's probably because he's wanted you for two years and YOU STILL AREN'T DATING HIM. Seems like maybe you aren't being as nice to him as you should be.
2007-03-20 00:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by kissmykumbaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly likes her and u are his best friend so he feels comfortable with u.....trust me i was in the exact same situation....i liked a mutual best friend of mine and my other best friend....the one i talked to the most in person was the one who liked me while the one i talked to a lot on line and everything didnt like me but i really liked her...in person he is prolly nervous around her and online he feels safe...
2007-03-20 00:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by yea boy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this way...You still have a best friend...He may just see it that way to....
2007-03-20 00:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys are different online for better or for worst
2007-03-20 00:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by broken hearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋