Have you ever had a boyfriend / girlfriend almost break up with you because of different views on raising children in the future and how to handle money?
2007-03-19 17:22:15 · 12 answers · asked by Rita 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We ended up compromising and talking it out. It's worked out and fine.
I was just wondering if anyone else had a problem like this.
2007-03-19 17:28:47 · update #1
yes
2007-03-19 17:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not thinking about that yet. But if the two of them doesnt have a similar view on raising children and handling money or being able to compromise, then they are not ready for all that. So, its best for them to break up, otherwise you will have more problems in the future.
2007-03-19 17:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have broken up ith guys for those reasons. If you don't agree about kids and money in the beginning, you aren't likely to later. And those are the big deal things. Who wants to be fighting forever about how to save money or how the children should be disciplined?
Parents especially should show a united front.
2007-03-19 17:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but it was not a almost it was complete. I could not see myself with someone that I didn't want to spent time together in the future. I mean one of two months is fine but I knew it was not going to go any further so I ended it. Good Luck
2007-03-19 17:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by Ruthie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well those are good reasons to break up. If you can't agree on something as fundamental as child-rearing, then you're not a match. You need to have the same values.
Same goes for money handling. Money can ruin marriages - don't date someone who can't handle money responsibly.
2007-03-19 17:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by WhoGalt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i haven't, but i think these things can eventually be talked out and compromised on. and if you guys will break up over different views, then it wasn't meant to be. there's always other people out there, no matter how much you believe you love this person.
2007-03-19 17:26:20 · answer #6 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. we did end up breaking up because he thought that children should be seen and not heard. i could never be with a man like that
2007-03-19 17:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by carriec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! and those are good question to ask before you settle down and more--------Those are important views you might need to break off with bf/gf.
2007-03-19 17:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. actually differences in relgion and beliefs and which religion the kids would go into.
2007-03-19 17:26:33 · answer #9 · answered by Minor Bunny Engine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-19 17:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋