Right or Wrong? Is it right for a guy to go out with a girl... friend (let say to the movies) and leave his girlfriend as SECOND! important in his life? which is more important his girlfriend or his buddy???
2007-03-19 17:19:58 · 17 answers · asked by grazieloo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its wrong becuz you should b first in his life....
its rite becuz he can spend time with his female friend as long as they dont u kno...take it to far.
2007-03-19 17:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by BasketballPlayinchica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are personally comfortable with. If he spends more time with this girl then yourself, then i'd sure trade him in for someone who's going to show you that you mean the world to him. My boyfriend has 3 close female friends and I really don't mind if he was to go to the movies with them....but saying that I've got to know these girls considerably well and what their relationship is like with him (I don't feel 2nd rate to his mates) Has he let you meet this girl and do the two of you have any form of friendship? I know if I didn't know my boyfriends close friends (female specifically) I'd be a little dissapointed and consider it wrong.
2007-03-19 18:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by finopolis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it's not right at all, it's ok for guys who have girls , just as friends, but not to go places , or talk on the phone or anything like that, if he has a girlfriend, his girlfriend should be first then his friend
2007-03-19 17:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a fried is a friend no matter the gender. I think it is important tha tthe guy makes the situation clear to his girlfriend wha tthe situation is between him and his best friend though. it is a situation which could go very bad if it were not properly explained to her before she gets the wrong idea.
2007-03-19 17:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Brad C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront her and communicate at the same time with her about it. Does her hugging different adult adult males hassle you? If she's your actual girlfriend then i'd communicate at the same time with her about it and get promptly if she fairly doesn't like the drama from different females, or if she's in simple terms in simple terms attempting to get strong with a tremendous purchase of fellows. attempt hooking her up with some females that you be conscious of, yet get her in touch with more advantageous women individuals because being round and choosing to be round adult adult males each of the time isn't healthful for a lady to do. She needs women individuals too.
2016-11-27 00:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that is a retorical question, because it sounds to me like the man needs a serious a double s kickin to me. There is no way I could be with a man like that. They have some connection that cannot be shared with you, I think I would look into that. If there is nothing to hide, then why not tag along? Think about it.
2007-03-19 17:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Teveren P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, from the attitude of the question, you're the girlfriend.
I've got news for you girly, your boyfriend is going to have other female friends, just as likely to have other male friends.
Did he ask you to go to the movies with him?
What did you say?
Do you really think something's going on with the other girl, or are you just mad he wasn't with you?
How much time DOES he spend with you?
No offense, but this sounds like it's about controlling him, not wether or not it was right. I suggest you lose your attitude and control problem, or you won't need to worry about a boyfriend for very much longer.
2007-03-19 17:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Balance girlfriend and friend thats a girl time. With me i have guy friends that i dont even consider like them i would like because i am such good FRIENDS with them. I guess it depends if its like the long time best friend friendship or the just another girl he knows.
2007-03-19 17:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Sparkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has any respect for his girl friend then no he wouldn't go out with another chick no matter how long they've known eachother. You should flip the script and see how he likes the situation reversed. if he gets upset than you have your answer he has zero respect for you, and it's time to dump that loser, because if someone doesn't give you respect they never will. you will spend months maybe years wasting your time because eventually you won't last.
2007-03-19 17:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by job e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i think that his girlfriend should ome first in my personal opinion i would have taken both girls to the movies if they knew eachother and were ok with it that i think would show my girlfriend that both parties are equally important in my life but also that i think it would be good for them to be friends as well
2007-03-19 17:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by yo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am assuming you are the girlfriend so i will try to be gentile. my husband has friends that are girls and he goes to the bar and things with them while i inturn go over to friends who are guys and hang out or go to the movies with them. in our case i dont like bars and he dont like theatres so we have others to go with. as long as you are open with your spouse or significant other then there should be no problem. now if lines are crossed then that is a problem. just talk it out
2007-03-19 17:27:04 · answer #11 · answered by wlfbelcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋