'm a 21 year old girl that is studying to get into medical school and lately I've been feeling very insecure.
I've never had a boyfriend, that didn't bother me until about a year ago however. Last summer I started to get alot of interest from guys (2-3 yrs older), and I was flattered and took it seriously. Nevertheless, I probably took it too seriously, thinking that they're interest and everything was worth my time, but clearly not b/c then I just never heard from them again.
I just don't understand. I don't go to places to attract guys, but when I meet them, they are super insistent on talking to me/seeing me very often. It lasts for 6-7 months usually, and then they drop off. What am I doing wrong?
I'm keeping in contact with this one guy who lives about an hour from my school and we've been talking since August, talk almost everyday online, but I feel like I'm being strung along. I don't know.. do I fall in the cracks of the pretty girls/not dating material?
2007-03-19 17:17:04 · 9 answers · asked by mellei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't look it will find you.-L
2007-03-19 18:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dear mellei
Sorry but my fellow men at your age, you are better off to fall in love with a medical book. Do your self a favor and date your self till you are out of medical school or you well drop out and regret it the rest of your life. You have plenty of time I know it does not seam like it at this time. 21 you are young and most of the guys your age care more about a beer then a serious relation ship. Please remember these times so you can tell you daughter how you felt and what you did. Good luck study hard
2007-03-20 00:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your time and attention to becoming a doctor.
Give up on meeting guys who arn't local or quality.
You have lots of time to meet someone.
Not everyone dates. Some people are older before they find that right someone.
You have the oppertunity to be a doctor. Go for it!
2007-03-20 00:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel like you are alone the guys are like that now. You are to busy any way with your school and it begins to be to emotional to be involved. Finish school and keep yourself busy they will be calling you back. Like you say you are only 21 yrs old. You will meet someone that will appreciate you. Man want sex. You are not the problem!
2007-03-20 00:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound smart and your goals are good ones.Maybe
you are to busy for serious relationships.Chill out get your Career going,then maybe you will not be so insecure.
Usually you can be charming and be what others want you to be about 6mon.-7mon.then you let your defenses down and become your real self.If you are pretty,smart, and ready for a
solid relationship no need to force anything or pretend to be someone else.Just be yourself...
2007-03-20 00:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act like it's something wrong with you. All you will do is end up with self. Go out have some fun make some friends & see where the friendships goes.
Good luck.
2007-03-20 00:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-03-20 00:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. Email me and we can talk about it.
2007-03-20 00:26:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE NO IDEA BUT I STILL FEEL YOU OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEACE OUT
2007-03-20 00:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋