2007-03-19 17:16:18 · 16 answers · asked by abcdefgh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rule number 1 NEVER UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES SETTLE FOR LESS. Make there be a chance with the person you want. Fight for it....and if that doesnt work go for something better.
2007-03-19 17:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you settle for someone else & say get married & this person suddenly decides he can't live without you will you leave the one you are with for him & you know you know the answer to this. If the answer is yes wait a little longer or at least until you feel like you don't love him so much. Because if you do settle you will most likely be depressed most of the time & is it really fair to the other guy who thinks you love him?
2007-03-19 17:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by love_um_or_leave_um 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never settle. If there is some chance that things will work out with the person you truely love than that's worth the shot. I know everyone told me that i shouldn't stay with my boyfriend that it would never work out and that it was going to be very hard to stay together. But we're getting married in 5 mts now. So that proves that love is worth fighting for. I moved 5 hours away to be with him and gave up a lot to be with the man i love. So do what your heart tells you to do.
Just never settle for what's right there. Cuz you'll never be fully happy and you'll always wonder "what if"...
2007-03-19 17:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would try and get him though i don't know how slim the chance is and i am a guy. i am searching for a girl in Alabama that i have a slim chance of ever talking to again. so if i was you i would go for it and if it doesn't work out move on
2007-03-19 17:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personal experience. i've had a very slim chance with a guy for almost four years. i've tried to stop. and stop and stop. it's never worked, and it's really hard to just settle for someone else. but i can tell you that all the waiting has paid off, becuase recently, i just went with him to a dance. so, it's definently worth the wait if you love him enough :]
2007-03-19 17:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by miisty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is truely Love then no. Go for the whole enchelada. Love is worth the chance, even if it is slim. Nothing is more worth taking the slimest chance ever for than Love. Go for it. If it fails then you have to go through the rebuild the heart process, the long healing and maybe be ready to try again. Nothing is more horrible than failing at going for Love, but even so You have to try. It is the greatest thing in life and the greatest tragedy as well. Go for it and good luck. If it fails welcome to the club and I have a shoulder you are welcome to cry on, even if it is just in the virtual world.
2007-03-19 17:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm ..well it depends if that is happening to you i would want to know from him and where he stands in the relationship. That is a big concern question when the partner doesnt give 100% should you settle with someone? well look hear me on this okay..if he giving off bad vibes just think to yourself should you try to make it even better or not? my answer for you is just to continue to find out and if its still the same well yeah move on and just hope someone is better or just continue with your life.
2007-03-19 17:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why the 'slim chance' is a 'slim chance' I believe.
2007-03-19 17:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by Rori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldnt settle for anyone. You need to wait until your over the guy you love (it might sound weird now, but this will happen.) You will love again, just wait until that special guy comes around and he might love you back. Good luck.
2007-03-19 17:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance... maybe he loves you as much as you love him, you`ll never know if you dont try... whats the worst that can happen?
2007-03-19 17:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋