How do I know if I need to just give up
2007-03-19 17:16:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
My mom has always told me that God knows the desires of your heart.
If you truly long to get married and have children, than God knows that. Afterall, he made you.
If it is in his will than it will happen, if not than it wont.
I dont think you would want to have those things so badly if you werent made to have them.
Really the only thing you can do about it is pray!!
2007-03-19 17:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never close the door in eventually finding a special person to share your life with
but on the other hand if you are currently single then God has a plan for you as you are right now
but HE could also hae a plan for you being married later on
the children thing similar but do be sure it is a good solid marriage tobring them into
hoping the above helps
2007-03-20 00:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God wants you to be happy. He doesnt care about what you have - you might want x,y, and z, but you have a,b and c.
That doesnt matter to him.
Your response to the situation - your attitude - it on you. You are the one who determines that - not God.
There are a lot of other women just like you. Try to open your heart to them - and you will find your place in the community and connected to other human beings.
That helps when you are feeling lonely.
I know. I am right there with you. Right now.
2007-03-20 00:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by freshbliss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He gave you the choice to marry or remain single as many devoted servants of God have done for thousands of years. If you want to be married and have kids he allows you to decide for yourself and vice versa
Does God have a plan for you? It is his will that you be happy in serving him being married or not.
2007-03-20 01:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Marina 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's this thing called choice theory....it's really very interesting. Basically, it says that people are able to make choices. If getting married and having children is your choice (plan) then do what is necessary to make it happen.
2007-03-20 00:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by KS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and ask God. He will give you your answer. Remember without faith it is impossible to please God. Do you know that God searches the whole world over trying to find that one believer that He can show favor on their behalf. If your faith level is not high, pray and ask God to increase your faith. The Word of God says that He wishes above all else that we prosper and be in good health, even as our soul prosper. May God Bless U.
2007-03-20 00:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it happens, is an excellent indicator. Its Gods plan for most women.
2007-03-20 00:25:29 · answer #7 · answered by Gary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray and God will bring you that special person he has had since the begining set aside for you. just keep on praying. God will do the rest.
2007-03-20 00:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by cindy r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray about it. Ask others to pray with you. Meditate on God's word.
2007-03-20 00:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Jan P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try, and if your children explode upon birth it's not God's plan.
2007-03-20 00:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋