It looks like i am a close friend to her. Recently i try to drop hints but not sure if she got it or not. Yesterday night i send her a sms that no matter wat happen i be with her. I really dunno where i stand. I always think i not good enough for her.
2007-03-19 17:11:10 · 21 answers · asked by ConfusedLost 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It looks like i am a close friend to her. Recently i try to drop hints but not sure if she got it or not. Yesterday night i send her a sms that no matter wat happen i be with her. I really dunno where i stand. I always think i not good enough for her.
I sms her 2 nights ago and told her i like her. This morning she call me and tell me her condition. I think i should be stand by her and comfort her first... The rest can say after her small operation next monday. Even if nothing well come by, i done my part.
Any views ?
2007-03-21 21:54:41 · update #1
I had left her alone and stop calling her. No point keeping calling her i think. Just let times runs. I also duno she knows or duno about it.
2007-03-27 13:28:31 · update #2
Just be a friend for her it may lead to more.
2007-03-26 23:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you really want to be with her...don't always be there for her. Ignore her a little. Don't worry about her thinking you're a jerk. I'm sure you're already a great guy because you are there for her but don't give her reason to say "you're too nice." That's just BS we throw out there because girls like a chase too. If she knows she can have you she will keep you on reserve but she'll never run out of other guys.
Be there sometimes, talk to her a little, change the subject after awhile, tell her you have to go so that you can *something fun that you don't invite her to do,* eventually she will call you and talk about things other than her crappy life. That's when you know she respects you for who you are and not just some living diary.
By the way, don't let her think she's better than you, be secure! I know it all sounds like a game but I'm tired of seeing nice guys get walked all over. Really it is game, and now you know how to play.
2007-03-20 00:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by kgconcerned 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have a fifty percent chance. Girls are weird, I know I am one. She could really like you in that way, or she could just see you as a close friend. Just give it time, maybe ask her. Don't ever think you are not good enough for someone, I should slap you, as a matter afact, I just did. Can you feel it? I hope so. All you can do is bring it out in the open. Maybe she feels the same way. It may hurt to try, but finding out is better than letting something good go. You never know, you two could be meant to be together forever, but you will never know until you try. Find out, and get back with me. I'm interested in someone finding their true love if I can't. At least I might have something to look forward to. hehe
2007-03-20 00:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Teveren P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
:D You don't think you're good enough for her? Cute. Okay, hm, well why is she calling you exactly? If she's going "Oh my gooossh the boy i`m in love with is blah blah blah...", eh i`m guessing she isn't exactly heading your way. But then again, I do believe she does have feelings for you. I got tons of guy friends numbers, and I talk to them a lot in person and whatever, but no matter what, I talk to my guy friend I feel like I'm in-like with.
"Anyone can make you happy by doing something special,but only someone special can make you happy without doing anything""
You're obviously someone special to her, if she calls you for comfort. She knows that you will be able to comfort her, and I think that would give in, that she likes you. I guess it all depends on why she called you on her problem. If its about her grades, or her friends, then I'm saying you definitely got a chance. If its about a guy, then, eh... you got some competition. She holds on to you though, calling you of all guys she knows. imagine that, dude.
goood luck with her dude. :]
2007-03-20 00:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Arianne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At this point i'd say she just looks at you as a friend. I'd suggest you make your feelings a little clearer and see what she says. Just saying you'll always be there could be considered a friend thing to say so she might not have any idea that you like her.
As for the not good enough for her feeling, that just sounds to me like very low self esteem. Which is a totally different topic all together. I'd just work on telling her you like her w/out coming right out and saying it, and seeing how she reacts.
2007-03-20 00:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dawnwalker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do u really like her? i mean, love? she's in a problem rite now. it is best 4 u to be with her and try to make her feel easy. but try to be honest. do not take advantage of her during her hard times... if she got ur attention, she sould be very happy that u are they for her whenever she's in problem. good luck.... i cant say that u'll get chance but u have to try if u really like her. dont think that u're not good enough. maybe deep in her heart, she's willing to accept whatever it is that u think are flaw. love is built upon honesty. hope u have a great day.
2007-03-20 00:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by ctkm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if she is calling you to complain and cry.. then you really have no shot man. I'm sorry to say but your stuck in in friends mode and you'll never get out of it. I know I've been there.. my friend who i was in love with came to me and complain about men and such...I was there for her.she didn't want me and staying around her maybe insane. If a girl complains and crys to you she just finds you as a friend. Girls don't cry and complain to guys the like or have crushes on cause they don't want to act nuts around people they like..they are afraid to drive that man away. You'll never beable to get with her. Sorry but thats how women work.
2007-03-20 00:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She may need someone to support her right now like you have been. Lay the idea of you two having a relationship for now down.
2007-03-27 18:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it great that you told her how you feel b/c now she knows and yeah i would just let time take it from here but i thnk you still should call her and stuff just not as much
2007-03-28 00:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by cfhjufdrbko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just got to tell her how u feel b honst but dont sound like ur obsessed. say something like listen we hav known eachother for a while n we are great friends but u need to know that i now hav feelings for you.
just because she calls you doesnt mean she likes u just b aware of that aswell it just means she trusts u enough to talk to bout that situation.
u just hav to be confident. and say things straight half the time people dont get hints.
2007-03-20 00:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋