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i can't get over her, no matter what i do. i would need amnesia. so how can i adapt to this as a condition in my life?

2007-03-19 17:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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You will get over her. I was the one who helped my husband get over a girl he felt the same way about. We started dating about year after they broke up and he told me he would NEVER be over her. I would always be second best. He was my best friend, and I stuck it out. We have now been together SEVEN years and married and have a five year old daughter whom he adores. We saw this other girl recently, for the first time again and he felt nothing. He was over her long ago, I had trouble believing it for myself, but after this final encounter, I am positive. I am his new, and only number one and have been this the whole time....he knew it, I needed confirmation and am fine now. He just thought she was "it", she wasn't even remotely as close to him as I have become. You will eventually get over this "other" girl as well!!! Don't drive your new girl crazy over it, whatever you do!!! And, watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind if you have not seen that movie...it deals with amnesia of past lovers and is VERY good!!! The point of it is, not to forget, but to learn and move forward!!!!!

2007-03-19 17:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by bubblingbroo 3 · 0 0

I felt the same way about my ex...perhaps i still do..i care for him a lot..and this is why i understand your pain..totally.I can only suggest u to move on..get into activities that u wud like to do..hang out with friends.do fun things..divert your mind from her.,and just know that life doesnt stop at her.good luck..

2007-03-19 17:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0 0

Trust me, it just takes time. Right now you might feel like it will be forever but most likely it wont. This might sound bad but, just tell your self that they will not like you and that you need to get over her. If you keep that hope in your head that MAYBE she will come around your heart ache will just last longer.

2007-03-19 17:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles 2 · 1 0

why would you want to be with someone that does not feel
as you do. you only asking for heartbreak. because she
only there for what she want and trust me when she done
she gone and you will be along. you deserve much better
then this dont you. love is about respect. you deserve
that if you dont want any thing else. you need to get
a life and move on. she not worth it.

2007-03-19 17:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

well it happens to the best of us... most people only wish to be that caught up with somebody like that. I think the best thing to do is lt her know how you feel. If you're lucky she'll feel the same

2007-03-19 17:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Suya 4 · 0 0

Don't be ridiculous. You'll get over her eventually. It'll just take time. Just wait, only time can heal wounds of the heart.

2007-03-19 17:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 1 0

Wow, feels like distinctive 14 12 months old females. i replace into as quickly as one too. i did no longer get my thankfully ever after with my prince (or countless thereafter), besides the fact that if it might desire to ensue. nonetheless, you're lots greater "in Love" at the same time with your knight in shining armor than i replace into it sort of feels. or in keeping with risk it replace into something distinctive...study ON of direction to work out what... My in elementary terms and significant subject is which you're so in love with him and so centred on being in love with him which you will forget approximately that your previous love in life is your self. this is optimal. I also have a 14 12 months old daughter who has been in like with the comparable boy for 5 years. they're rather sturdy acquaintances and each thing. and that i tell her that this is great and candy, yet that she desires to do for herself and to do issues and to discover issues that she likes till now she gets so caught up in a boy. And, she does. She is particularly lively in college and extracurriculars and all, so besides the fact that if plainly he would not sense the comparable her finished youth won't have revolved around him and her love for him. this is an exceedingly risky form of like to have as a baby and whilst an grownup. as wellbeing in love, who're you? What do you like? What else in life brings you happiness? What issues pastime you? the place do you notice your self as an grownup? those are issues all young little ones (or perhaps some adults who consistently lose themselves of their loves) might desire to artwork on. i might hate to be attentive to that yet yet another female (or boy) placed lots into their love for somebody that they never have been given to alter into the guy they might have become if that they had centred greater of the affection they have for this different guy or woman on themselves. i'm hoping i've got given you some issues to think of roughly. in case you come across which you do no longer desire to think of roughly those issues and merely desire to concentration on your love for him, then I do shed a tear, on the grounds which you're already dropping your self till now you even have been given to be YOU and that's rather a severe cost to pay for being in love. i might never wish that on absolutely everyone. no longer me, (my love would not exist on that time, and it never has no longer even while i replace into 14) and not my daughters.

2016-10-19 03:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I can understand you. Have gone through it myself.

you will eventually feel that your emotions have clam down, but it will take time.

Best is to concentrate on a hobby some time, till you ready to date again.

2007-03-19 17:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by Sean 4 · 0 0

Believe me it won't be the rest of your life

2007-03-19 17:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

have you watched 'family matters'?
you now know how steve urcle feels like.
just be friends with the girl. and she will come around.
have paitence and faith

2007-03-19 17:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by All4Christ 4 · 0 0

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