Do the physical features of a guy matter that much? And by physical features, I mean in shape, size, etc......
But I really would like to know if a person is big, and i am not saying obese big, but big as in maybe 20-40 pounds above average, still have a chance? I am 5ft 11in, 15 years old...
2007-03-19 17:01:52 · 13 answers · asked by Night_Wolf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone once told me that if they tell you that size doesn't matter, they are trying to make you feel better. But he wasn't talking about weight.
Serously, the weight isn't necessarily a problem. Looks, you can compensate for to some extent. Just remember that her most sensitive erogenous zone is between her ears, not between her thighs.
Oh, and the sad truth is that wealth and power are the greatest aphrodisiacs on earth. And that answer about self confidence, well, when it's combined with a little success you'll find that it does indeed work. My father had a rather crude phrase that summed it up. He said, the top dog always gets the most bitches. In your case, that means, if you can make them think that you are somebody, then things will be a lot easier for you. That means BEING somebody.
At your age the girls are just as tentative as you are and may not know yet what is really important to them. Right now, you can expect the quarterback to get the flashiest girls regardless of the fact that he may be a musclebound peabrain destined to become an insurance salesman. But when you get older, that will begin to change. Besides, flash ain't all it's cracked up to be.
I wish you good fortune.
2007-03-19 17:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by neoimperialistxxi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. First thing is onr of the most attractive attributes in a person is self-confidence. A person can be big and beautiful just as they can be shapely, and awkward. Smile, shine, and show the world who you are, unafraid. If getting in shape will help you do this, then go for it! Not only will you feel better physically, you'll likely gain some confidence, and friends in the process...
2007-03-20 00:11:32 · answer #2 · answered by Artemisia G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes-You still have a chance. Just dress well, be friendly, stay positive and you will be fine. And for your own personal health, not for chicks, you could exercise. Being overweight is so bad for your body and self esteem!I've been there. I'm down to average and I feel so much better about myself and its the inside that is attracting people now!
2007-03-20 00:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by dab1121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just need to meet the right person for you and they will love you for who you are b/c physical features fade with age but personality and heart last a lifetime
2007-03-20 00:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by milkchocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're 15 you still have a great chance....to go on a diet and join a gym. Now quit whinin' and start joggin' Chunk! and put down that Snickers!
2007-03-20 00:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matter to whom? that's the question. does it matter to u? and if so then why let other peoples shallowness affect Ur life . we are all unique and all grow at out own speeds, shapes sizes colour etc is what makes life more bloody bearable for gods sake, learn to love Ur self for who u are.
2007-03-20 00:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course bigger guys have a chance. Actually, a lot of girls go for guys who have a little of a bigger frame.
Whatever you do, don't try and fit into a mold of what a guy "should" look like. Just be yourself.
2007-03-20 00:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by f0rever_dreaming 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the kind of gal you are searchin for. if your lookin for the popular hooters kind of gal yeah looks matter. for a girl like me, who may have her head in the clouds but still has her feet on the ground, it doesnt really matter. yeah you have a chance with a good gal. i have a great boyfriend he is a nerd. he is 5'9" and super skinny. i love him for him, not the way he looks.might i mention that we have recently celebrated our one year anniversary... there is a girl out there who will love you like that, for you, not your looks nor money
2007-03-20 00:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you have a chance. I am also 15 and i prefer the bigger guys to the skinny small guys.
2007-03-20 00:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by Veronica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out a doubt he still has a chance.
2007-03-20 00:04:57 · answer #10 · answered by Bama sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋